Anyone else experience this

So I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time while I was drunk. After a long time she actually stopped and said “wow I don’t know if I can go much longer” and that she had already came twice. Now I can last for pretty much as long as I want when I’m drunk, but when I’m sober it’s another story. I stuck it in and probably after 20 seconds I came.she was a little disappointed (is this premature ejaculation?). Also when we are just fooling around when I’m sober I will get dark spots on my underwear and sometimes pants from precum and this is kinda embarrassing. I live in a fraternity and so I can get drunk pretty much whenever, but I don’t want this to develop into a bad habit and only fuck when I’m drunk. Anybody out there experience this also or know what to do? I’m gonna look up threads about Premature Ejac. But I have never encountered a thread about stamina while drunk vs stamina sober.

Swingman.

It looks really as though the answer lies in your own hands. (No pun).

If you are a ‘heavy’ pre-cummer then you might find darker trousers/shorts to be a better idea. light coloured clothes will be embarrassing!

Perhaps you could try not getting so drunk and just have a mild amount of alcohol.

You will just have to experiment, and find the right balance.

To answer your questions, yes, this sounds like PE (premature ejaculation). 20 seconds is a bit short. It would do well to deal with it and not through alcohol. By the way the thing you observe is that alcohol delays the orgasm reflex. At higher doses or when used over extensive periods of time it will also impact your ability to obtain and maintain an erection, so it’s really not a recommended treatment for PE.

Kegels will help.

Yea that is a one pump chump alright. This is gonna sound weird but I use to have the same problem. And my answer won’t be what you expect.

I think about sports when I think I’m about to bust. Or I think about anything but how warm and beautiful she is. The best is stats like home run records or football stats. Think about poker hands and how you would play pocket kings if there was an ace on the board. Think about when your car needs it’s next oil change and where you should go to have it done.

Bottom line is I let my mind wonder away from where I’m at and what I’m doing. Mind over matter. Just don’t start humming the sports center theme song while your hittin it from behind. Duh duh dunt, duh duh dunt.