Sex - such as it is - is relative as per “better>”
When I began my sexual journey, I never thought it could be “better” than in the arms of my first (we gave each otehr our virginity) partner. NOTHING - I thought - could be better thanthis.
As I matured, and my next partner became my (first) wife, I did not think THAT could get better. Warm, willing and wonderful - and then - the mother of my oldest son … “sex” became even better.
A short “fling” added a different kind of “better” to my ideas - but, I paid dearly for it, in the loss of family and self respect.
Finally, the BETTER of today is my wife of nearly 13 years - whom I love and enjoy. We began our sexual relationship when she was in her 20’s - had our son in her 30’s, and now rock it our in her 40’s.
BETTER? That, my friend is relative to your expectations and your situation. To me, there is NOTHING BETTER than a loving and committed relationship which is mutually satisfactory, mutually affirming and totally involved.
… and that is how I see it …
shalom
wan2Bbig/Alex
"Treason doth never prosper; what's the reason? For if treason prosper, none dare call it treason." - Harrington
“I SWEAR BY MY LIFE, AND MY LOVE OF IT, I WILL NEVER LIVE FOR THE SAKE OF ANOTHER, NOR ASK ANOTHER TO LIVE FOR MINE.” Ayn Rand, (Atlas Shrugged)