Beginning my Nofap Noporn journey

Today i am beginning a nofap and noporn journey.
I am tired about faling into porn and masturbation everydays so here we go.
It is Day 0 i ejaculated on porn, i feel like shit, im tired, i barely have sex with my wife (once a month) cause she is in a strange mood since 1 year.
I allow myself to pursue pumping routine without masturbation so i go in flaccid and build up an erection in the tube.
I will allow jelqing under the shower later maybe.
No edging, no porn, no hentai, no youtube garbage video or tiktok and insta sh**

DAY 0

Congratulations on starting your journey! You’ll succeed.

To help combat it at first, when the idea crossed my mind, I would go kiss the wife and squeeze her ass. Nothing else happened, it was just to break that train of thought. It’s been four weeks, and that’s the longest I’ve gone in my life with no porn, no fap. The first two weeks were the most difficult. Especially the nights that I had to go to sleep horny. Now I don’t think about it.

Thank you i will take the advice

The no porn part is absolutely a good idea and I really need to get there. The no fap part I’m not so sure. I’m personally torn on it because I think it’s part of maintaining youthful vigor. I guess if you’re married and/or have a willing partner, the daily romp is the better way to go.

I quit masturbation cause it leads me to go watch some porn.
Honestly i fapped enough in my life i think i dont miss anything.

Congrats on a new effort to quit porn! As time goes on you might find that masturbation alone without porn is healthy, fun, and also something that you CAN do without porn. I know, it is hard to masturbate without porn on. I am still trying to make it work for myself after 4 months of no porn and masturbating with porn on. It is not easy! But, like last night, my wife wanted me so bad the grool was oozing out of her pussy as she took her panties off and demanded I put my cock in her right away, no foreplay, just intercourse. We fucked for quite a while (probably ~20 or so minutes, which is a really long time considering the longest amount of intercourse she’s been able to handle from January until sometime in June has been just a few minutes). The longer I’m off porn, the quicker I get hard, the more desire I have for my wife, the more sensitive and responsive my genitals are to anything she does to them, and the better I am at giving her sex.

Thinking about it now, I don’t masturbate nearly as much as I used to. I don’t really at all during the day (although a spell of it hits me around noon most days when I’m home working alone and I’ll play with my hard on for 10-30 minutes but I don’t cum) and I don’t have the urge to cum at night if my wife doesn’t feel like sex. I guess I’m in the no porn and no fap zone?

Good luck again, I know you can do this and feel good!

Thank you man !

Relapsed, restart of the journey…

No worries, you still got this. Make it a challenge, each subsequent restart, try to go longer than the last time. I’m not sure if you have a live in, but it can make it easier. My gf knows that I don’t masturbate and so sometimes I just need to get one out. I’ve walked up on her in the kitchen, pulled down her pj’s and got one out in 2-3 minutes. As long as I keep it quick like that she doesn’t mind being my “get off” tool.

If I didn’t have a live in, I would go to the local men’s club for a hand job or something at least once per week. That would be my “reward” for holding out. By far I’m no “authority” on this as it’s only been four weeks. But I have made up my mind, I’m done with it.

I hit 17 weeks today, it’s worth it! I like your “get off” and its great she’s down with that. Plus Plus!!

17 weeks is awesome!

Yeah, in reading it again, it sounds a lil misogynistic. She’s not a “tool”, she is my woman and she doesn’t mind helping me out when I’m on edge.

Being married 25 years is great. A daily romp however is unrealistic and even unreasonable.

Thank you.
Haha the sad part is that i cannot even touch my gf because she is totaly inactive at this point.
I miss sex so much.

Wow 17 week congrats man.

Yeah, daily is a lot. During quarantine, we went more than usual for sure, but at best 5 days (times) spread out in one week. 3-4 times a week is normal and pre-covid 2-3 times per week was more common.