can't cum

I have a friend who cannot cum when having sex, he does not masturbate, has anyone heard of this shit happening? If so are there any remedies?

rolo

I read some other thread call “How to cum quicker” or something like that……I’ve heard of this from a few guys, they say that no woman can make them cum through sex.

I suggest you friend try finishing off up her arse!! Should do the trick :)

If only I had that problem in High School :)

Believe it or not, what helps me cum quicker are kegels DURING sex. Most people say kegels during sex help prolong ejaculation, but for me it always had the opposite effect. When I kegel during stimulation it increases the sensitivity in my head and makes me nut quicker. Go figure.

I’ve had this before aswell, Jelqing has made my head less sensitive so I can go on for too long!

This “problem” your “friend” has sounds like it would be my dream come true.

It isn’t.

“Anorgasmia” can be very frustrating, although potential pleasure for the partner. Imagine going, and going, and going and never getting there?

Ask your friend if he is taking any medications. Viagra, for only one example, can cause this in some men.

Been there. It’s only fun for awhile. Ejaculating or an orgasm is the point of sex, after all.

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Originally posted by j384

This “problem” your “friend” has sounds like it would be my dream come true.

I would have thought that too, but obviously he is quite frustrated to the least. He is not on any medication, but I will check that out. I am sure the chick he is doing does not mind though….

HEY!!

I have this same problem! And I’m not on any medication. Well I’ve only had sex twice, and the first time was cut short. But recently (about a month ago) I had sex… for hours - and wasn’t able to achieve orgasm, now from what i’ve heard you don’t need any kinda technique to work on to achieve orgasm, as most have a problem holding it in. However… it really freaking sucked not being able to squirt my load…. and when I finally did (by myself) he was a huge one! hehe I would like some advice too. Also I cannot masturbate standing up ever. I have to be laying on my back or in a chair sprawled out. Also, I have to move my legs back and forth to intensify it: legs apart meaning less pressure, in & together meaning more, and in and together and muscles tensed everywhere meaning certain ejaculation with further penis stimulation. Maybe my penis isn’t sensitive enough??

There’s an amino acid that’s supposed to make it easier/quicker to orgasm.

Suppossedly l-histadine will make you orgasm easier to achieve. I don’t know where you’d find it, but I have read that it’s a treatment for “delayed orgasm”.

I hate to recommend yohime or yohimbine to anyone because of blood pressure issues and the emotional upset it sometimes brings, but it is often a solution for anorgasmia (can’t cum). Viagra can have this side effect and a number of guys have found relief with the prescription variety of yohimbine. It is more refined than the ground tree bark you find in some male supplements.

And MDC’s advice is solid. There has been a lot of recent research on that. I don’t know about side effects but that is likely in the literature.