Controlling ejaculation

Serenity73- I do agree with you, I do have a big problem.

I could be wrong but I believe addiction is defined as something that you cannot control. You are in fact addicted to ejaculation. Edging is the way jabz, you just have to find a way to control yourself. It can be quite fun if you incorporate it into a fantasy. Or, find a fuck buddy and have her tease you for hours.

Its not like as soon as i touch my dick i cum, its more like i want to control my ejaculation when i hit the point of no return.

That takes time. Work on Kegels. You need to get to the point where you can hold that sqeeze hard and long enough to stop ejaculation. This isn’t going to happen overnight so don’t get discouraged. Keep trying and in the mean time do you’re kegels and do some more kegels and after that do some more.

I honestly don’t understand why you can’t control your ejaculations when you’re edging. You should have sensations of the PONR coming up before you get too close to that point and just stop there. I don’t mean stop stroking, I mean stop touching your dick since it seems you have a control issue. You definitely need to work on your self-control. Unless it’s an uncontrollable addiction you have, edging is pretty much fool proof. In my case, edging by hand and edging by using a fleshlight or something similar can make a huge difference when it comes to actual sex, but in either case, you should build up some self control and get a hold of your sensations and then move up to the fleshlight to help maintain yourself during sex.

From your posts, it sounds like you’ve made your mind up that you can’t control your ejaculations, and that’s your problem. Start thinking positive and take control of your sensations!! Your orgasm will feel as good and probably better if you let it build up by using the stop/start method. It’s not rocket science man!!

During sex if you feel your self getting close to climaxing then just stop for a second and play with her clit, I guarantee if the girl is experienced she won’t care and she knows your trying to stop yourself from exploding. Also when you feel your self about to cum if you hold it long enough and kegel very hard you can prevent the cumming and have a dry orgasm, Then you can keep going and last a good 30 minutes at least. Good luck bro.

Hi,

Is there a plan i should do kegeling, like how much within what length of time?

Its even if my cock is not hard, and i keep stroking it i can get to PONR withink for 5 mins , which i think is rather pathetic. I definitely do need to work on my self control but want like a plan that i can do daily, which can help me.

Still lacking in control , friends …..

Just keep on doing kegels and reverse kegels learn how to do them right there is plenty info on internet then edge and try to use mind self control.

You are relying on your physical needs to climax by ejaculating.

If you keep on having problems (depending on your age ) see your GP for SSRI.

Kegel routine.

Hold for 2 seconds. Rest for 2 seconds. Do ten of these three times a day, every other day.

Once this starts to become easy use can increase your time.

I usually hold for twenty seconds.

Give yourself time to develop the muscles.