Erection frequency

I have a question about erection frequency. After my first orgasm, it takes quite a long time for me to get an erection. When I do eventually get it, it is not nearly as hard as my first one. What could be the reasoning behind this, and if I start doing PE will it help me in this department.

Thanks

Welcome to the forum Speedy2k,

The time it takes to recover an erection after orgasm is your refractory period. I’m guessing you’re probably spent afterward and would rather take a nap. A lot of guys are like you, don’t worry. Maybe including sets of kegels to your daily routine might help, or supplements such as Maca, horny goat weed or some of the others that are mentioned in the supplements threads. Good luck with that.

Yeah pretty much like that, I rather sleep LOL However there are days where I guess my sex drive is higher and I want to continue. Ill give that horny goat weed a try :)

How long have you been PEing? I have been PEing for 20 months now. I was like you once, but now I can rebound in a few minutes as long as I don’t stop thrusting for long. Soon I get hard again and can go for a very long time before I cum again. After the second time though I am done and usually very tired along with my wife.

I know PE is the cause of this. Keep working at it.

Avocet8 explained it all here. It’s normal and PE by itself won’t change it.

I think it has a lot to do with your level of arousal. I would normally have this problem now and in the past. But after an extended period of constant arousal either from myself or during sex, I can cum multiple times without loosing an erection.

Try taking a lot more time with arousal before going for it. And don’t think about trying to stay up, just think about what it is that is getting you so turned on, the girl, the porn, your grandmother, whatever.