Originally Posted by jester race
A few nights ago me and this girl I’ve been seeing were hanging out, which led to her giving me head, and eventually sex, or lack thereof. I kept a decent erection, about 70%-80% while getting head but after I got the condom on I started to lose it, and eventually had nothing to work with. Ever since I haven’t been able to keep a decent erection for more than maybe 10 seconds. I’ve never really had a problem like this before. Just a few weeks ago I kept a nice erection (90% or so) while getting a handjob from a different girl. What the hell is the problem? I picked up some Horny Goat Weed to try, no results after a day of use but I suppose it takes longer, since it’s a natural supplement?
Well, it could either be your nervousness or her technique. It is impossible to diagnose further without investigation. Please send this lady to me for evaluation of her technique to make sure she is doing everything correctly. :leftie:
Seriously though, if everything else in your life is okay (diet, stress, health…) then it is most likely that you are thinking about your performance and what you are going to do next. Like the others have said, just relax, enjoy the visual stimulation of a beautiful woman, the physical stimulation of the things the beautiful woman is doing and just have fun. Don’t worry about “rocking her world” or “making the Earth tremble.” Just relax and have fun.
Try concentrating on her pleasure and how she is feeling. If you enjoy women, usually that will take the pressure off you trying to be the “rock hard porno stud to rock her world” and allow you both to relax and totally enjoy the moment.
Good luck and good gains!
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PE for length: so her heart stops when she sees it. PE for girth: to get her heart started again!
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