Fertility

Has anyone ever wanted to get a girl pregnant just to know if you are actually fertile? I think it is painful going through life not knowing if you are capable of reproducing. Most men think getting a girl pregnant is going to ruin their lives, but my view is, atleast you are capable of doing the one thing you were meant to do in life, continuing the human race.

I just have this urge to get a girl pregnant to see if I can, I mean, I’m too young to take care of him so I’d want like a no strings attached child I guess, I hope you guys know what I mean.

Has anyone else ever had these feelings?

Try therapy, it’s alot cheaper than child support.

There’s no such thing as a “no strings attached child”.
If you’re going to approach creating another life with this kind of attitude, then I for one hope that you cannot have children.
Isn’t there anything else you could contemplate through out the day?

Try going to a clinic instead.

Go to a clinic and let the doctors test your sperm there. It is cheaper, doesn’t has any strings attached and it is also possible that the girl you are trying to make pregnant is infertile, with testing you don’;t have that problem.

I meant you have an agreement with the girl that you aren’t responsible for the child. I wasn’t looking for advice, I was wondering if others felt this way too.

I’ve been approached by single women twice in my life to do this. I did some thinking about it and decided that I need to have some influence on any child I help create (upbringing, education, parenting, all that) - even as an absentee parent.

In the first case she got pregnant by someone else. That ended happily. In the second, I was turned down because my requirements did not fit into her plan.

I understand where your coming from. Men by nature have an urge to reproduce and spread our seed. It’s a display of dominance and superiority to be able to impregnate a woman so don’t worry about your urge to much just make sure that your prepared to take care of a kid when you eventually are ready to have one.

I wish I was you. How’d you get so lucky to get 2 women to ask you this? How’d you meet them?

I didn’t ask. I just happen to have good genes and I guess they liked what they saw. And, I am pretty bright. :)

I think I might be trying to get this girl pregnant and she is alright with me signing away my rights! I’ll keep you guys posted.