Help 18 year old out a little.

In answer to your questions about sups/chemicals:

Before I say anything else, I want to be clear on something: At 18, and from what you’ve said so far, this shit is all in your head. I don’t think you should start relying on sups and chemicals at this stage—get to the root of what’s going on in your head so you can enjoy a long, natural, healthy sex life before resorting to external measures.

That said, look into yohimbe, maca, horny goat weed, tribulus, and tongkat ali. Use these sups as a last resort, and do your research before trying any of them.

I would strongly recommend against resorting to Viagra or Cialis at this stage of the game.

In all seriousness though maybe you should look into buying a fleshlight. You can get used to the feeling of penetrating a vagina (all be it plastic) so when it comes down to the real thing you will feel more comfortable and confident.

Still?

lotto
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Scandinavia

Buddy, you’ve got the same problem I had when I was your age (I’m 37 BTW) . Basically your percieved good looks don’t match your personality. You might be good looking, and all the girls might want you physically, but your brain wants (and needs) someone who you can truly relate to. Go get a real girlfriend.. Sex is gonna be soooooo much better when it is with someone who you actually care about. Also.. Absolutely no shame in being a virgin at 18.

Gl. Jamps

Just chill out. Don’t think about it at all. And don’t concentrate on not thinking about it either. Just have fun and relax.

Hey, personally I think that maybe you just let it get out of control. I mean if you think that your boys would have looked down on you if you haven’t had sex then that has hindered your own personal growth. I mean if you say that your town really isn’t that big then who have you been sleeping with? (Supposedly, if your boys think that you have). If I were you I would definitely not start on sups and chemicals because then you would associate a working dick with them which in turn just hinder your personal growth even more. I say Jampers is right on the money with this one. Just go get a real girlfriend someone you are extremely cool and comfortable with and possibly confide (not confess) but confide that you are still a virgin? I mean I know a couple of girls who love virgin guys.

Have you thought that maybe your not looking to loose your virginity with a girl?? I used to have troubles getting hard with girls.. And well I figured out the problem.

This happens to a lot of guys. They might not admit it though. Happened to me, more than once. Just think about how good it will feel to fuck her and feel her insides. How good it will feel to lose your virginity etc. Maybe you should slow down, more foreplay/kissing/feeling. One thing that always works in this situation, is jack off til you’re about to cum, like edging, then stick it in. But really make sure to tell her what the problem is, or else she’ll think you have no interest in her.

Thanks guys!

When this “accident” happened, I was very tired, very hungry, drunk! And nervous.
Since the girl was so hot and demanding(I knew she expected great performance) I was nervous as Hell. I even lost my libido totally for a week after that, and at times I was afraid that I never would get it up again.

Now I have bought a flesh-light and the girls that I have been with lately arouse me like crazy again!

I have a lot of friend groups. Some live in one area of the town and some in another. And they don’t know each other that well.
This summer me and seven friends went on a huge party vacation! Of course I ended up with a few girls.
The one that I was about to fuck didn’t have a condom and neither did I. So we just fooled around.
Fingers, oral. Etc. I was as erect as my dick can be when drunk. Anyway the day after, my friends asked
If I had sex, and I answered yes.
And they assume that I have fucked a lot of other girls too.

I like what advocet and cheeva said. I also would like to add this as well. If your not ready for sex don’t do it. Don’t let a bunch of immature 18 year old shit heads talk you into something your not ready for. Your sex life is your business not theirs. Don’t give into peer pressure. Peers won’t be there when you get a STD from not wearing protection either. It is your dick, you are it’s govenor, not society, not peers! This is something you decide to do with the woman you love.