Help Did I cause permanent ED from my PE?

When I was your age, ( I am 50 years old now) I had a break up with a girlfriend and I was believing it was about my penis. I thought my penis was not making HER happy. That was a lie I was telling myself. I could not get an erection for a long time ( ALMOST A YEAR!) because my brain was telling it not to. I did other things like got a better job, found a fun hobby, and finally got her and my penis off my mind (for a few months) and it came back as good as new. I know it is very hard to not think about it, but you, like I was, are probably making it happen in your head. You have to realize you are a great person and feel good about yourself before you can have an erection, or your mind will not let it happen. FIND ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND! Do not let a relationship make who you are :) WOMEN really DO NOT care about our penis size, we men make a big deal over it, women just want to be loved :) I hope this helps :)

I really think my erections are effected by my deep sadness and suffering from depression. Its not only that my erection are low but also I have pain in my head upside in brain and and left aide in my chest and Got a Small lump upper my navel etc.. My deep suffering from pain in my soul and heart is now effecting my body very clearly! I think its all will be better if I feel better and normal.. Trying to get a job and start my training again so it will help me feel better.. Will try to change my life style a little bit will help..
Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts. I really appreciated it. <3 O:-)

Hey LittleDingy, great thoughts. Thanks for sharing! I agree. It’s our own confidence, or lack thereof, that will sabotage a relationship, more than the size of our member, more likely than not. A big dong is merely a plus, but not a substitute for the other things that matter. My wife said, quite wisely, that she preferred a big heart over a big penis. However, like may aspects of our relationship, I’m not entirely listening to her since I’m still pursuing PE lol!

Update: not much notable improvement today. Morning wood, but not as firm as yesterday. Still difficult to get a sustained erection. Patiently applying all supplement remedies. Keeping positive attitude though.

Btw, sed26, I forgot to ask, how long did it take for you to recover from clamping and did you do anything to help the recovery?

I just can’t tell you both how many failed relationships (including BOTH cougars) I blamed on my penis, and come to find out by reading about 60 hours and looking at pics here on Thunders, that I was above average. That wasn’t the problem. There are so many things that can be the reason, but, Lovely 007, dealing with a much older woman, you are almost always dealing with “their” problems, and they will JUST DUMP YOU. (Its happened to me both times) and I suffered immensely for a long time, until many years later, when I realized I was USED, and actually gained some satisfaction about it :D (she used me for my attraction and sex, IF IF IF the sex as no good to begin with, (and I have been there), she would have been gone within ONE TIME, so don’t beat yourself up anymore :D LLKK, I have beat up my little dingy so hard I have to clamp it, some times, just to get it up to make my wife happy! Lol. Our body (and our mind) are amazing, it first cares about survival, and then reproduction, you most likely have nothing to worry about in the not too distant future. Just take good care of yourself, stay confident, and appreciate your woman if she is good to you :D

Hey Little Dingy!
Good morning there.
Thank for another nice reply. I can imagine that but I loved her.. Our meeting and living was not only for sex it was based on love. Anyway we are separated now and have no hopes for gathering again and she have not shown me any future.. Sometimes I think she used me in a manfully for sex but she still says she loves me etc.. Anyway she have put treated me badly and shown me from her actions that where she stands.. I won’t believe she used me or did not love me.. But I have to move on and accept that these are the realities!

I have been getting erections many mornings and yesterday when I was traveling in the train I got a erection haha its was solid for few minutes but stayed for long time. And this morning my erections were very good(90-95%) that my glans were getting bigger too. Also I am feeling that now I’m getting my penis a quarter of inch bigger by PE. But don’t want to measure it until I get 100% erections back soon. Made me feel good

Because since 4,5days I’m trying to think about new things and not suffer more but to be happy and forget about those sad moments.

Could you please share about your PE and penis size in the start and now with me.. And how long have you been doing PE?
Have a wonderful day or rest well!

Lovely007, That is great to hear about your erections! :) I did not mean to say that you both were not in love, but that she definitely liked your penis, and you should never think that your penis was why you and her broke apart. Keep up the positive thoughts and attitude and keep moving forward :)

Yes she never said or showed me the separation is because of my penis lol.. It was some more factors that effected the relationship.. The only problem I had was I cum. In few.minutes after intercourse but I know its normal Because I was a virgin. When I met her 1st and we have no regular sex for months that I could build my drive long laster! Anyway Now I have learned alot and will be better, long laster and have a little bigger penis from PE :)

Update: it’s about 1.5 weeks since the incident and things are back to normal mostly. Got a sustained erection about 2 days ago and things are now largely back to normal, although some more healing is needed no doubt, but the fear and anxiety have passed as it seems fairly evident that the johnson will be back to its old form fully. Thanks to everyone who provided their experiences .. Really helped! BTW, penis seems girthier now, possibly from the magnesium oil and/or the leg vein supplements. Anyone else with that experience? I read about using magnesium oil for firm flaccid on another thread here .. Think it works (if you can get over the sting).

Good that things have improved, a couple of weeks is pretty quick !

Maybe it was the supplements. I think the magnesium oil could have really provided a healing boost!