Her first time

Hi I’d like some feedbacks from you guys…

Last night I was with my girlfriend and we started kissing and getting very aroused and then she told me “Im ready” (She’s a virgin). Then I did everything fine but sticking two fingers into her pussy was very very tight. I tryed to stick my willy (I don’t know if I was 100% erect.. maybe 90%.. the condom was pretty tight) and I just couldn’t enter AT ALL (I’m 5 1/2 base - 6 inches mid girth). Then I was pretty affected because of that… she started sucking me but I was thinking too much about losing or not my erection (phobia) so I lost it..

Anyone can tell me what to do? I don’t know how I’m supposed penetrate her… By the way this is my second time, the first one was with a pretty experienced girl so everything was ok…

Thanks for you support
Hunter

I know its weird, but ask her to kinda open up her vagina by opening the lips of it( pulling the lips to the sides). meanwhile you can focus on just lining it up and pushing it in…

What I did when I first had sex with a virgin. Worked well, cause I couldnt get it in at first eith and your thicker than me.

I would try a lot of foreplay, try to get her as wet as possible, then take it very slowly.

is it just virgins that are like this?

first time me and my ex-girlfriend had sex, i couldn’t get it in. she was supposedly not a virgin. Anyway, after the first time, it got easier and easier.

thoughts? i think i was her first :D

LUBE! LUBE! LUBE! :beaver:

A man that knows! Lots of lube (I think Astroglide is the slickest). Oh, and have her hold her ankles while spreading her legs as far apart as she can - it really opens her up. And dude, you HAVE to be rock hard. Jerk off a bit while kneeling above her before you go in to get hard. Girls love to watch such things, it gets them even hornier, so don’t be self conscious…

:chuckle:

I like that reply

Thanx for the replies guys,
“you HAVE to be rock hard” - that’s what really affecting me.. I have this phobia not to be hard enough.. when I’m alone it’s ok but then with girls I’m nervous… any good advice?

Hunter

guys is it possible for a 19 years old boy to have impotency problems?? (I think it’s just stress but I want to be sure) because losing my erection was kind of humiliating… I wasn’t able to get it back but then she left and 2 minutes after that I was back up… Sounds pretty psychological …

Hunter

Doesn’t sound like you’re impotent, like you said a lot of it is psychological.

Any chance you can get a half a tab of Viagra from a friend?

I don’t know if I should get into VIAGRA.. I mean I’m only 19.. I don’t think it would be normal.

Hunter

I think you’ll be okay in a little while. I also lost my virginity at 19 and had some very annoying impotence problems. You will get over it, trust me. It’s completely phsychological. Just try not to worry about staying hard and have a good time!

Trust me, it isn’t impotence. It is purely psychological. Just don’t worry and don’t worry about trying not to worry. And, most importantly, don’t worry about not worrying about not worrying. And don’t worry about that, either.

Its a bitch, isn’t it? A nice step in the right direction is to just be honest with her about his whole thing. Teamwork.

Girls get horny seeing a man jerk-off?
I thought it was only the guys who got-off on seeing girls masturbate?

And BTW, jack, love the name and avatar :up:

I’ve had so many good moments with Mr Jack Daniels, many mornings waking up in vomit, many in the gutter :D —- Nice memories :)