Her new toy

Hello, I have some questions. I’m now at a length of 7.5+” and my wife is having some trouble with it. Most of the times I have about an inch left out. Occasionally she’ll tell me to go all the way. But when I do it on my own, she tells me to stop that it’s too much.

I’m not really sure if I’m hitting anything, but I know that sometimes it’s too much for her. Last week we couldn’t have sex for a couple of days because she was bleeding, not from her cycle. It was after sex, doggie I think on fathers day and we didn’t have intercourse for four or five days after that because of the bleeding.

Anyone experience anything like this? Can anyone give me some tips on how to use my new length?

This is like being a virgin all over again because I have to find what works for her. A couple of nights ago, the first time since the bleeding stopped, she was really sore after. She was complaining about it and everything. Not in her usual I’m sore in a good way tone.

Maybe I should be asking her these questions, I will tonight, I just want it to feel good for her. I don’t want to scare her, oh no he wants sex again…

Thanks for any replies, I’m typing in a rush so I hope it makes sense.

Have you tried having her ride you as you lay back? She’d have more control and maybe give her an opportunity to work up to accepting your increase (congrats, by the way).

Great suggestion. This is an easy postition for women and allows them control.

Just one caveat, do not allow her to bend backward too far, especially if you have a high erection angle, because this can really hurt. Been there. Major strain on the unit.

Owie!

Oh it is, sunny. And that’s what we call a wound over here. An “Ow-ie.”

Let me guess, shes the one that proposed u get bigger….bet shes kickin her self in the ass now…haha.

No really most girls i talk to say that when dealing with big dick they like on top more because they can control it…..try that for sure

Hey whoa,

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Beliver,

Not saying I have a big dick or anything but I would say to follow dewey, avocet and thunders advice, let her ride you… I know that my wife prefers her on top or doggie style to any other… I also know from my past experience that it was the best position for me to last the longest (which in my past wasn’t very long)… Congrats.

believer: one can always change the wife.

Hmmm, tt for pres? That acctually sounds like a good idea. I think.

I’ve let her ride me, and we enjoy it but she can’t cum in that position. She’s very picky when having orgasms and needs to be on her back.

Her legs can’t even be over my shoulders, she needs them down. It’s crazy I know, but you gatta do what you gatta do. Right.

We kinda figured it out. I have to go slowly, enter slowly and us a little bit more after every pump. Like first the head, then a hlf inch more, than more, Last time I spent most of the night using about 5.5”-6” (which used to be deep thrusting for me :) ) and then towards the end she asked for more, and when she got it, oh baby.

It didn’t put her over but she was getting real loud and I love it when she gets loud because when she can control it, she tries to be quiet, as to not wake up the kids or nieghbors (which I though she’d do). And when she gets loud I know she’s lost in pleasure. Oh joy. It was fun.

But doing it like that really helped, I think I just went too deep too soon.

Thanks for the tips though, I really appreciate it.

When do you longer guys typ. bottom out? I remember DLD (readers gasp) say that her only got 8-8.5 in his woman. I ask because the last time I was deep in there it felt different when I came. Like I was holding my hand right over the blast. Typically it just shot out, and I felt nothing in term of resistance to the force. It kinda felt like I was shooting into a condom, I guess, but not quite. I hope this makes sense. Am I getting close to her limit? Does this sound right?

What you just described is her cul-de-sac, the magical place, where women lose all sense of their surroundings as they give way to orgasmic bliss :)

It is the end of the line in her vaginal cavity, behind her cervix. When she is hot and ready for it, getting into this deep spot will driver her bonkers, as you’ve experienced. It is the Holy Grail of length gains. If you can reach this spot day in day out, you have all the length you need for her. Any extra is just gravy for you :)

Lucky bastard… :)

I definitely wouldn’t want to be too long for my wife to take fully. She definitely likes me bone pressed inside her.

My suggestion is to slow down and prolong sex once she has you fully inside for a couple of weeks. As long as you’re gentle, its less likely to cause injury/bleeding. Hopefully, this will stretch her out.

That sounds like a plan. My wife also like me to be bone pressed. She told me not to get too long because she loves feeling my body against her when I go all the way in. Wcich I must admit I enjoy too.

Take it easy guys thanks for the replies.

Peace and God Bless.

I like the body contact too. That is why I’m quitting when I get 8.5 length bpel.