Hey big load shooters...

Well, your imagination is better than the reality because I have never hand jerked a guy in my life.

My husband on the other hand, aims it at my breast, stomach, and flips me over so he can smear it on my ass. Face was hit once and I got some in my mouth and thought I was going to gag. :p

I’d love to shoot all over my wife, but she get’s pissed as she loves to feel it squirting deep within her… :)

I guess I can live with that :)

So when getting youf hubby off orally, what do you do with it then? Just get out of the way? :)

Reason why sometimes semen is thick, and other times runny:

Between the prostate, epididymus and seminal vesicles, there is an enzyme that liquiefies semen by hydrolyzing a proteinaceous substrate that coagulates the semen seconds after ejaculation. In English, semen is normally watery as it is being mixed/formed. Thick, coagulated semen sticks to the cervix like throwing mud at a fence makes it stick. That keeps the semen from running right back out. Over a short span of 15 to 30 minutes, the enzyme starts hydrolzying the seminal gel and reliquefies it to make it easier to swim up the cervical os. Thus, ejaculated semen is like a two stage rocket: first to stick ,then to swim. If you ever observed semen that has sat for a while, like jizz in a used condom or whatever, it is ALWAYS liquefied. Coagulated semen never stays curdled for long. Then what about semen thats already runny fresh out of the tapper? That load didn’t get much of the coagulating protein for some reason, which happens, but is not the physiologic “norm”.

I am a pharmacist with a Ph.D in pharmacology, so that is how I know this stuff if you are wondering.

PS—this is my first post. I totally dig this site and joined last week.

Regards,

Southpaw

Hey southpaw…(welcome aboard;) )

I was meaning when it initially come out the penis.

RB: I don’t usually swallow because I don’t like the taste of his spunk and after 13 years he stopped asking. (well after the first two years). For the most part he won’t ejaculate. He will wait to do it inside of me (or previously described areas). He doesn’t like to orgasm while I am doing him because that is usually foreplay for us. If he comes and we plan to have sex, we have to wait and sometime I am not in the mood to wait until he is desensitized. Uhm..anything else super private you want to know? :p

Welcome aboard Southpaw. Glad to see you made it. :)

southpaw;

Welcome, southpaw. Good you know a lot of this stuff. Expect to get tapped by a couple of us who are working on reproductive system pieces for Thunders. You did raise your hand, right?

The clotting factor comes mainly from the seminal vesicle fluid and is caused by androgen-dependent proteins; it’s speculated that prostatic fluid may also make a minor contribution to the clotting of ejaculate.

Welcome!

We’ve now volunteered you for numerous committees. (Just say “Yes”)

Good to have you here.

:blue:

Hey guys. Thunder knows my “birth” here was painful. My ISP server kept black holing the confirmation email, so I was shut out of the forum and I had to write Thunder personally and ask him to register me manually, which he did. Bless you, sir.

Avocet8: right on re: ejaculatory proteins. So there is somebody here as smart as me? Perhaps, but not as good looking… :)

Cajun: sure, sign me up. Its the least I can do to repay the great info on this forum!

Anna: Yes, dear, I sure *do* have a super personal question for you: I used to date a woman—26 y/o, divorced, one kid—and after a few months of dating and having sex, she told me after we made love one afternoon, “You know, I can always feel you come,” and she said it with a serious tone, like it meant a lot to her. She said she felt each pulse of semen travel down my cock and shoot against her cervix (so she claimed), which struck a responsive chord or filled some deep need in her.

Now, I am just an average proportioned guy (6” even—the reason why I am here in the first place!) who shoots an average load (3-4 cc), but we are all gifted with something, and apparently I have very strong ejaculatory muscles. She said none of the other guys she had ever slept with came inside her with such strong contractions, which I found flattering, of course. She said some guys she couldn’t feel them come at all (not related to size) when they ejaculated, so my special “talent” was a big deal to her. She was sure she could not only feel my contractions and the pulse of my semen jets hitting her cervix(a given), but that she could actually feel my semen pooled in her vagina apart from my penis. She also had (confessed later to me) intense fantasies of being impregnated by me, and my ejaculations would sometimes trigger an orgasm of hers seconds later that would make her whole pelvis contract and lift off the bed. She had a tubal ligation before she met me so she could fantasize risk free.

Anyway, before this post starts reading like a soft core porn novel, I want your opinon as a woman from a less emotional, more clinical perspective:

— The inner 2/3 of the vagina is relatively insensate except for pressure receptors, which is why women want to be “filled up” in a dull sense which is no where near the exquisite way they feel touch near their labia. My question is, considering a woman’s blunt sense receptors in the back of the vagina, do you think she actually can feel my semen hit her cervix, or is that the work of an overactive imagination? I know some women don’t like their cervix bumped or touched by a penis, but obviously her cervical sensations—at least from me—were very pleasurable.

— My best bet is if she can actually feel my semen in her at least for a moment, it is probably due to a slight temperature difference, as even if my semen and her vagina differ by a few tenths of a degree, that might feel discernable. Or….can you really feel the presence of a mans semen inside you (and I’m barking up the wrong tree here), and it doesn’t have anything to do with body temperature differences? I am thinking it would be difficult to feel in a vagina already awash in vaginal secretions the presence of some extra liquid, or is there something about the consistency of semen that feels different?

— Presuming a woman loves or feels strongly about the man she is making love with, do many or most women fantasize about being impregnated—at least fleetingly—at the point of his or her orgasm? Intellectually, she knew she could not conceive, but when I ejaculated inside her, she caught her breath and told me how she wanted my sperm to make her pregnant, which turned me on to no end. (I think I need a cigarette just typing this, whew!)

Regards,

Southpaw

Welcome Southpaw,

I don’t post often but in this case, I want to ask you as a Pharmacist, what would you recommend (herbal or otherwise) to increase quantity of ejaculate? There are ads on the web for certain pills but I don’t want to shell out a couple of hundred dollars for a supply of ‘hoax’ which is what about 99% of the web ‘offers’ are.

Appreciate any info that you might offer.

Southpaw wrote: “Avocet8: right on re: ejaculatory proteins. So there is somebody here as smart as me? Perhaps, but not as good looking…”

Uum. Don’t count on the latter Southpaw…

I have some info (I think) in my files about how we deduce temperature and other differences through tissue. I’ll look around when I have time.

My ex always disliked condoms during the times we had to use them because they denied her what she called “the spread” at ejaculation, her term for what might have been either pressure pulses discerned during ejaculation or from a temp. difference of the ejaculate. I’d vote for the pressure pulse sensations, the temp difference between us being so minimal that few, if any, could sense it.

And, there is a whole lot more “feeling “tissue back in the vagina than we men might think. Have you had a DRE (digital rectal exam) on your prostate lately? A synonymous experience, I would think, to what women endure when they have pelvics.

Webster: Funny you should ask……Do what I am doing at this moment (as soon as my stuff comes in the mail, anyway). I am going about it in a systematic way. I have perused the literature and/or what I find credible on this forum. The trouble with herbal literature is they are mostly unsubstantiated crap. It relies on “testimonials” (meaning they delete all the unflattering reports) and anecdotal reports (individual case studies). My lecture in a nutshell here is remember, the ONLY reason any herbal remedy works is it contains the drug that stimulates the necessary receptor to do the job. Drugs that are made by pharmaceutical companies are drugs. Drugs that are in herbal supplements are drugs. Just because they might be buried in a soup of other inactive ingredients doesn’t make them “natural” or God help us, “drug free” (implying to me it doesn’t work at all). Your body does not know nor care of the origin of any chemical agent (synthetic or “natural”). There is no such thing as good drugs or bad drugs, there are only drugs. It is a neutral concept. Knowing that most herbal literature therefore is worth less than toilet paper, I am resigned to having to keep my own counsel and use the good old fashioned scientific method of empirical observation.

I am first trying L-Arginine, 3 grams a day in divided doses, like 1.5 gm Am and 1.5 PM, and Pygeum (not sure of dose, perhaps 2 x 500mg of the crude preparation.
I am keeping an open mind and will see what happens.

Always take any substance on an EMPTY STOMACH. Unless specifically directed otherwise (some drugs are rough on the stomach and need to be taken with food to buffer it, but they are few. Whether to take a drug on a empty stomach or with food should *never* be an arbitrary decision. Food can have a radical effect on a drugs aborption and other characteristics which I can’t go into here. When in doubt, err on the side of an empty stomach, meaning one hr before or one hr after a meal. As a rule, 90% of an average meal is discharged from the stomach in 30 minutes, so an hour is fine.

Now mind you I didn’t say I didn’t think herbal meds work—its just hard to separate the wheat from the chaff. There are many herbals that are firmly established in conventional medicine tho, and you always want to start with those, cuz you can count on them. Examples (not related to increasing cum load) are yohimbine and ephedra. Herbal meds will work just like anything else if they have the drug in them that has the effect they say they do—whether the herbalist wants to admit it or not—that is the only way they will work as advertised.

Anyway, I am first going to take a baseline ejaculate volume using the empty barrel of a syringe. Then take the arginine and pygeum and remeasure my semen volume after some amount of time, using the same measuring equipment. Results seem to come quickly (no pun intended) from what I read in the “increase your load” posts here—like it either happens in a week or it doesn’t, so I will give the combo 7 days. I will report to you my scientific results :)

Also, you need zinc, as you ejaculate out zinc every time you come, and zinc is essential for making semen, so it is possible for your semen loads to steadily dwindle with each successive ejaculation in an ever decreasing spiral. However, dont’ overdo it—zinc can be toxic. A couple of doses a week ,thats it.

Thats as complicated as I want to make it for now (arginine + pygeum), otherwise there are too many variables and the experiment gets out of control.

No charge for the consult :)

Regards,

avocet—I am reaching that age (late 40’s) where my fellow doctors get interested in my prostate, and as of this writing I have not yet had the pleasure of a grey haired man with a stethoscope and a white coat stick his finger up my ass, but that will be in my future within the year, alas.

re: temp difference of an ejaculate—I didn’t think so either. I am betting she can feel the seminal “splash” though. Still awaiting Anna’s woman’s eye view on that.

Regards,

Get the DRE done. And for starters, the PSA. All kinds of junk arrrives in the late forties, early fifties. You need to stay on top of that so that you can always feel like you are still in your thirties.

L-arginine does not increase ejaculate volume for all, but does for some of us. I think the amount you are trying is sensible. If three times a day amounting to 3 grams total, take the last when you go to bed.

Say more about how you plan to measure. Sounds difficult to me. Where does the empty barrel of the plunger go? Into the already-collected goods? If so, you’ll miss at least a half ml, but you know that.

Let us know. And give the L-a at least a week to work, maybe a few days longer.

I had to “give” a seminal specimen yesterday in conjunction with some tests my doc is running on prostatic function. I am not in any way bragging here, but it really made me feel good when the guy who accepted the stuff at the lab said, “Very nice volume.” I think he added, “Sir” after that but by then I was probably blushing too much to hear well.

Southpaw, how much zinc do you recommend a guy take a few times a week to maximize supply but not be toxic? Is the doseage recommendation weight dependent? Also, if a guy eats a lot of foods that are rich in zinc (like red meat), can he still supplement safely to see if it helps load volume?

For what it’s worth, my wife won’t let me pull out as she too loves the “sensation” of my cum squirting into her. I’ll have to remember to ask her more specific questions about what she feels the next time we have sex.

And by the way, slip into the cds, and you’ll change your opinion on nerve endings at the back of the vagina in a hurry :)

I thought you were going to ask something simple like what my favorite color was.

I think she might be able to feel the pressure of it. I think she could feel the initial burst but that might be it. Her vagina, I don’t know. She might be able to feel it hit her cervix. I guess it all depends on how low her cervix is; how her cervix is situated; what position her body was in while you two were having sex. Touching the cervix is okay. Pounding it can hurt after a while.

Depending on my arousal points, I can feel when my husband ejaculates in me. If it was a quickie, I can actually feel that it warmer than I am inside. If I am not heavily aroused I can feel the increase of moisture. If I am really, wet, for the lack of a better word, I can’t feel jack. Except for when I go to stand up or move around.

I have had my moments, and they were few when I made love to someone I was deeply in love with and wished with all the wishes in my heart that I could have his baby. As he ejaculates my mind would slip into foreign territory. I actually would have a stronger orgasm by the thought that this could be the one. Of course it never happened when I wanted it to. I can say I know exactly where I was and the date, when I became pregnant with my first son.