Humped myself silly and now I have issues!

OK, I’ve been hanging around at Thunders for a while now and learned a great deal about penis health, size and the general male consensus on the subjects surrounding it, however; here lately I’ve gotten a little more settled down and found a beautiful 36 year old woman (a 12 on a scale of 1 to 10) who humps my brains out… when it works. Yes, here in the past few weeks my erections have almost vanished. I have morning wood often and can usually get aroused by her very sight or scent but when it comes time to back up all the shit I talk throughout the day Mr. Happy is dead as a door nail!

I tell you guys, I have to actually stop and play with myself to try to get an erection but often cannot achieve more than 25%. If I can get the head in and start it moving I can usually get a full erection but it quickly goes numb or has a great deal of loss of sensation even though she is so wet I could float a boat in her pussy and of course when this occurs I actually loose my erection while inside her before I cum… talk about embarrassing and frustrating!!!

She get angry and gives me the “It’s me isn’t it? I just don’t do it for you do I?” guilt trips.

The funny thing is, 3 weeks ago we had sex 5 times in one day… 5 times!!! WTF??

This has been a sudden change in my ability to perform. I have an excellent sex drive and want to do it often, especially around her. She does everything right, kissing all over, biting the nipples, rubbing the balls… etc. but still just a limp noodle.

I was reading about the loss of sensation and it seems that the nervous system maybe damaged or nerves in the penis might have problems. I have an appointment this Friday with a Urologist in hopes to find out what the heck is going on.

As far as PE goes, I don’t do it much anymore. Actually I haven’t done PE in about 3 months now. Is it possible that I have damaged something that would take a while to show up or possibly I just have performance issues? Hell, I don’t know. i was also taking some of those blend pills you can pick up on EBay for near nothing. you know, the horny goat weed, yohimbe, etc pills just for sex drive increases only but I have since stop taking those as well.

I guess my question is, what say the penis experts here at Thunders and what should I expect from a visit to the doctors office?

I would expect that you will be leaving the doctors office with a prescription for Viagra or Cialis. And you might find that taking these enhancers just a time or two will be all you need to get everything working like new again.

You probably just have a little case of performance anxiety and once one of those pills kicks in, that might be the end of it.

Perhaps you’ve had so much sex recently, that you’ve depleted your stores of zinc. Try some supplements, but take no more than 100mg/day.

Try my diet (which happens to include zinc).

Try some herbal supplements, and if that does not work take the little blue pill.

I agree with Rockwood…the “sex 5 times in one day” kind of thing will easily deplete sexual energy (including Zinc). Do you ejaculate every time you have sex? If so, maybe consider edging.

SLth73,

You say she is 36, but what is your age?

I am 35 and I can still follow through to orgasm 3/4/5 x’s a day. And did for basically a year with my ex. I don’t follow a special diet. So I guess there isn’t a lot of advice there to be had. Maybe I am the odd one?

Hey man, so please tell us how you found and hooked up with a super hottie that is also super horny?!

And how does this hottie look like? Cause you may be under the influence of super freaky Damn good sex (lol) and I think we also need the looks to see if we can place her on the 12 of our scales. ;)

And also Don’t worry bro, this definitely sounds like a temporary problem, but listen to zaneblue on her diet it’s seriously good shit.

Peace!

It’s a clear case of performance anxiety.

I think that gprent is probably 100% on the money (and I never agree with him because he is usually wrong). The V anc C willl do wonders.

“ducks as the sucker punch comes flying in from the back”

Thanks for the vote of confidence. :-k

I am very interested in this topic also.I’ve had some erectile dysfunction because medication I’m on.When I take Viagra my erection is fine but it seems I can no longer have an orgasm from sex.Even oral is almost impossible for me to get off.The only way I can achieve an orgasm is through masturbation.Either by my own hand or my girls.It’s very frustrating for me though I’m super lucky because my girl is very understanding and will do whatever it takes to finish me off.I’m wondering if I haven’t suffered some type of nerve damage as well that makes it impossible for me to orgasm through the course of sex.Sorry if I hi-jacked the thread,that was not my intention.

Anymore to say about this, as in details and dates? Never know what’s in a supplement and some of the OTC stuff, while having an initial positive effect, may eventually kill your test levels. Was this supplement regimen a reaction/attempted solution to your problem or were you taking these while your sexual ability was normal?

Couldn’t tell from the description above.

This will probably be pretty unpopular and may even get deleted, but do you think that PE may have something to do with this? I mean, there are so many doctors and other people that are the professionals that claim a lot of the stuff that we are doing, can cause some serious problems. The problem that I most commonly read about is impotence.