I can't get fully hard and penis is out of proportion

Hey all,

I am new to this site and I need some advice. How can I get 100% hard again with having to have sex with a girl. The only time I get rock hard 100% is when I am with a girl. Its seems like I am always stuck at 70%-80%. I am not overweight, I work out and I lift weights but I can’t seem to get fully hard anymore just by myself, could it be from to much masturbation? Because when I was smaller in high school and I was smaller I could get a full erection ( 7 inches) but now since it has grown alot I can’t seem to get the full erection.. Also I realize that my penis is out of proportion.. When its fully hard its roughly 1.75 inches is diameter from the thickest point but the girth depth is roughly 5 inches around.. What up with that.? My girth should 5.4 inches around.

And also does anyone know where penis size comes from.. Its is more from your dad or your mom.. My father is well endowed.. (Defiantly not looking at it too long lol) its defiantly bigger then mine.. So maternal genes influence it too I assume?

My older brother got dad’s dick which was huge! Mine,at least at the commencement of PE, was merely average. Yet we both had the same parents and some shared genes. In compensation, I got the athletic body. My brother is a shrimp. Nobody fully understands the vagaries of genetic chance. You should learn to live with what you have and learn to work with it.

Could be from excessive ejaculation, rough PE, stimulants for working out like caffeine in high doses, stress from working, lack of sleep…. hard to tell. Have you tried taking a few days off from whacking it or PE?

What about the above with low doses of caffeine like 3-4 coffee per day with extreme edging and not ejaculating? I have tried taking days off but I can only get a semi.

Sounds like mild over training, the kind of over training that’s just a decrease in performance. Either take a couple days to a week off and decrease caffeine, or if you can’t commit to rest then do really light PE days with a fraction of the effort you put into your normal PE days.

It’s like how I workout every single day, and now PE everyday again….. I can maybe go hard and go all out on my body and my penis 3 or 4 days a week, but every other day I doing just a couple reps and maybe 20 wet jelqs at the most. It’s an active recovery but I consider it more like practice for PE and military dead hang pullups which I do every day.

On a side note, doing it this way my girth is getting a lot bigger and I’m not getting red spots because I’m taking it easier but progressing into harder exercises and more jelqs slowly.