I last longer when having sex...?

Hey guys, I’ve recently lost my v-card and have gotten over a psychological impotence problem. However, now I’m facing a new problem. I randomly lose erection when having sex. I am a premature ejaculator when masturbating, lasting anywhere from 1 minute to 1 hour, but it’s mostly in the 1-10 minute range. When having sex, though, I last anywhere from 5-30 minutes. It seems like I can last longer when having sex. I do not think I am cumming inside because I didn’t feel an orgasm, but I did get those dry heaves (shooting blanks?) once. I pulled out at that moment and there was no semen anywhere. (I’ve only had sex twice, both times without a condom. Yes, I will start using one) The second time my dick went limp, I squeezed my dick out like you do after masturbating to get the last bits out, and only precum came out.

^^^^ That’s a huge jumble

Well, what I’m trying to ask is, do you guys last longer when having sex or when masturbating? And do you think my dick goes limp because I came inside or is it just because I’m not 100% over the psychological impotence problem? It’s weird because I’ve always been worried about lasting too short when having sex (I know 5 minutes isn’t very long at all), but I last longer than when I masturbate…

AND thirdly, do you guys know any way aside from edging that can help me last longer? Edging is unreliable for me because my nuts get blue really quickly, and I last in a very large range of time.

Thanks guys

So many variables to your question. As you know your mind controls everything. You last longer when you masturbate because you have proven to yourself that you can. Your on anxiety is causing you to lose erections self doubt will kill erections.

I am not sure what the answer to your question should be. But what I am sure is that you need to start using condoms, unless you plan on making babies.

The first two times I ever had sex, I couldn’t cum. It got a little frustrating. Anyway, I reasoned it was because my dick was only used to cumming one way (with my hand), so I mixed up my masturbation. I used lube sometimes and I even made a crude sleeve. Maybe it was that or just knowing the girl longer and relaxing, but by the third time, I was able to cum.

Oh, and not using a condom is stupid and irresponsible. Wise up about that now.

Yeah I’m using a condom now. It was just those two times… Well, my question is why can I last longer when I’m having sex than when I’m masturbating

Also, I can’t cum with she’s giving me head or when she’s whacking me off, but I can when I’m inside of her. It’s weird….

Guaranteed you came in her, at least treat it as such.

There’s always anxiety when your in your first trials of getting jiggy.
Soon you will start enjoying yourself more and begin to open up your sexual side. For me it’s all about relaxing and sharing the same vibe.

PS. Being a good lover is a giving lover, go from screwing her to going down on her to putting her in a different position to going down on her for even longer.

Good luck and keep up the condoms.

For me, when I masturbate I’m TRYING to cum so I think about about it, when I’m having sex I’m trying to last longer so I’m not thinking about cumming so much.

As for the giving head part, it could be because she’s not that good. I was like that with my ex and a few other girls, while it was ok (bad head is still good right? Lol) it wasn’t great. My current gf is amazing and can make me cum in like 5 mins or less when she’s giving me head! Damn I need to get her a ring lol

We used Plan B just in case, and she had her period a few weeks later, so I think we’re safe.

Yeah, I’m trying to go down on her but I’m so frikkin noob. Usually it’s pretty dark when we do it because neither of us can afford to turn on the light lest one of our parents walk in… so it’s pretty weird looking for her clit. Most of the time I don’t get much reaction, but when I do, I go after the same spot and after a while there’s not much of a reaction from her (Yes, we’re both of age, we’re college students LOL.)
Wow that was OT… Maybe the thread should be called “Help a noob out”

Yeah I don’t think she’s that good at giving head… Maybe that’s why….

I have a feeling alot of posters on here are under age of 18 by some of the questions they ask. Are you 18?