I'm loosing my erection when I pause during sex, why

Matt356, you have to describe a little more detailed, what happens:

How do you get hard in the first place?
Has it always been like this, or has the problem started at some point in your life?
Are you 100% hard, when you are hard?
Are there periods or situations, where it is more easy for you to stay hard?
Have you discussed this with you girlfriend?

Are you stressed or going through a rough period?
Do you think it is physical or psychological?

JL

(and as you might notice from the questions, I have been studying psychology)

I ejaculate at least 10 times a week :D But it’s normal for me so I don’t think it may be the reason. And when I’m horny like hell, well, I don’t loose my erection then - but - my mood and trying to relax often decreases it. Maybe I’m trying too much to be relaxed? ;)

J:
1. My GF makes me hard :D in just few kisses
2. No, it occurs from two weeks (about)
3. I am hard from 25%-120%. It’s not that I’m either erected or flaccid.
4. I stand hard for a long time when my GF is on top and it’s terrible when I’m on the top - I feel like I’m loosing all my tension in my dick and bottom then
5. No I haven’t discussed it with her because so far I can copy with it so she doesn’t see any significant difference.

6. I’m a bit stressed because of few situation but it’s not that bad ;)
7. I think it’s rather physical. For sure even. But don’t know what exactly.

How it’s your morning erections?

It Depends. Some days they are and I’m quite horny the, sometimes there are none and sometimes.. It’s typical “morning wood” - my penis is hard, big, and last like that yet for 30min after woke up but I feel no special excitement. Why?

Because this it’s a clearly sign of something good or bad in your erection, if you say that you morning woods are normal, then your erection it’s normal, your problem may have other cause!

Did you used any sublements? (Past 4 months)

No, I didn’t. And I don’t always have the morning wood - is it bad? I start to wonder.

Man , I have the same problem with the erection sometimes.The funny thing is that when I was 18 I was constantly erect - I mean constantly , any little thing could bring me to steel erection.Now I’m 21 and missed 2-3 times to have sex with a girl because of a week erection(and she refused to help me get it hard - just stood and watched me - bitch) , however , I mastrubate pretty much and watch lots of porn .. this may be the reason - I’m not sure.In the mornings sometimes I’m with 20% erection , sometimes I’m with 100% and the penis is so full that actually hurts me.But the erections for sure aren’t so strong as before.And I like yourself wonder what could it be.I changed the country where I study .. many problems and new things on my head too.

One friend had the similar problem - in the beggining hard , later on soft .. went to urologist and found that it was not mental , he got a disease from a pool or something.Bulgarian it is named - prostat.Later he got some antibiotics and he’s fine now.So when you think what kind of problem is , you can never be sure.

Bitch is right!

Is something wrong with me if I haven’t experienced this “constantly erect” thing since I was 14? Cialis is starting to bring it out again, but from what I’ve heard from peers it seems that I should be experiencing this naturally.

Yes, I’m wondering too.

Matt Morning wood it’s a important sign that I learn to watch! It’s very simples, if you have a normal morning wood and starting PEing and your morning wood disappear it’s a clearly sign that you are overdoing your exercises and should be more carefully, I am not saying that you have a erection problem because morning wood it’s not that good, but it’s a good thing to observe.

You have to be careful about using morning wood as an indicator. Nocturnal erections usually occur during REM stage of sleep, so if you wake up during this stage, you will find yourself hard. If you wake up without an erection, it does not necessarily mean anything other than you were not in REM sleep. I usually find myself rock hard around 2 or 3 in the morning, but necessarily when I wake up at 6. If you are a sound sleeper, you could possibly sleep though your erections and never know whether or not you are having them.

I have a similar problem. In the last few years I’ve overly-overly-overdosed myself on porn and masturbation that it’s most often better and more fun than the real thing and unless I’m extremely horny it’s often hard to keep or get a 100% boner with a girl. And the problem is I still can’t stop the porn and wanking despite trying for a long time.2 weeks is the longest I’ve gone in about 4/5 years.I can watch porn and wank for 2-6hours a day, 6/7 days a week.I really need and want to stop but without a gf, getting sex or much of a social life it’s near impossible.any advice?

Another reason I really want to stop is that PE results were greatest for people who wanked/cum less often and last time I done PE (for bout a year) I got practically no results but would always wank for hours and cum after doing PE so maybe that’s why?

kingdong, I would recommend that you focus on quitting porn, but try not to control how much you masturbate. Beat off when you want. If you quit porn, the amount you beat off will naturally decrease.

If you are horny, I don’t think there is any sense in trying to resist masturbating. Just do it, but do it without porn.

I know some guys will disagree, but I think it is almost like a mid-evil attitude to have guilt over something so natural.