Is it me??

I had my first sexual experience with my mothers best friend at the tender age of 14. I know that is really wrong now, but at that time I was a walking hormone who wanted to know everything about women and sex. She was also the first women I ever saw “naked”. Not from a picture or anything. She was a brunnette. And she also enjoyed putting her finger up my ass while she blew me. Now that was a little different but after a while it was very enjoyable.

Fast forward 6 years later. Im dating this model. Most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I was playing full time in a band then and met lots of women. Why she picked a skrawny blonde drummer I dont know. :) But, she also was a brunnette. And she also liked to finger my ass when she blew me.

Fast forward to 10 years later. My wife has a suprise for me she says. She comes home and her hair is now a brunnette. (was reddish brown.) Freaks me out completely. So she is blowing me one night and I kinda ask her to finger my ass while she is doing this. NOTE!!! I have never even asked this from her before cause I kinda “forgot” about liking it. She says no, its disgusting, yada yada yada…….

And now Im kinda depressed about it. Why??? I have no idea.

Any advice?

Tell her you really enjoy it, and get her some finger rubbers :)

Maybe you are depressed because you wanted to continue this fantasy with your wife.

Tell her that it turns you on and she can even put a condom on her finger or something if it grosses her out that much.

Thought I should add, she is probably totally unaware that prostate stimulation is pleasurable, similar to her G-spot.

How would she feel if you didn’t wanna touch her g-spot?

well…a g-spot is not up someone’s ass for starters. :)

Some men don’t know how to stimulate the g-spot.

Maybe she will have to grow on the idea.

Shame on them… :)

Sounds like she could use a little sex education refresher course. Do an Internet search for “male G spot” and find a site directed at teaching a woman how to do prostate stimulation. Get some lube and latex or vinyl gloves at a drug store and help her have fun learning.

Buddy_Rich66

Is it possible that because of the first two encounters with brunettes that you correlate getting the prostate massaged with brown hair? I realize this is far fetched, but stranger things are known.

And if that is the case, when the wife changed her hair color and then didn’t massage the spot for you, you were a) disappointed and b) had a fantasy crushed.

Talk to your wife about your enjoyment with the prostate massage and go from there.

Don’t everyone start bitching about this but I think you should give her a nice ass drilling… After a nice night of anal sex with her she might be more supportive of what you want… Might be worth a try.

Hehe.

buddy_rich66

Does she let you do her ass. If not maybe she just has an aversion to shit and where it comes out. If she does let you do her ass maybe she thinks it makes you somehow gay (I don’t think it does but it is easy to see that kind of thought process).