Low stimulation - can't stay "into" it

Hi all,

I’ve got a bit of an issue. With my most recent partners I’ve been noticing that I’m just not enjoying the sex that much. I don’t feel a lot of physical stimulation, my erections aren’t as hard as I’d like them to be, and nothing gets me off.

I believe this primarily has to due with stress and emotions. I’m still heartbroken over a past love (pretty recent) and I’m just not super “into” these other girls. The energy in my body doesn’t jump up like it did with the old girl I liked.

It annoys me that I’m so emotionally bound and not as physical primal. What can I do to overcome it? I am posting here because I don’t know if I should just do some PE and kegels, or if perhaps I should get a prescription for Cialis or use some other supplement.

My penis and prostate is healthy. I can get erections and urinate and ejaculate, but sex isn’t doing it for me. The only type of PE care I do is I take 1000mg of Saw Palmetto every day for general penis health.

Thank you in advance!

Give yourself time to get over the ex. It’s quite normal to experience what you’re going through now.

Do you watch porn?

Thanks for the reassurance. I’m gonna start talking to someone soon. It’s beating me up pretty bad inside.

@Sed
Nope, haven’t watched porn in a long time.

The best thing you can do! Go talk to someone. It will help!

Yes to talking to someone. No to porn - given your mental state, I can only see porn making things worse.

Titleist is right. You just need time. And you need to decide to really let your ex go (if you haven’t already).