oh, Fuck. I have a Venous Leak- Invictus' thread

Hi everybody!

Despite I get very hard errections in my corpus cavernosum, my glans won’t fill up 100%. If I clench my fingers around the bottom of my shaft and do some kegels it will stay so. If I only push down on my dorsal vein it won’t make a big difference.

I red that the BC muscle is connected somehow to the corpus spongiosum and if I remember correctly, the BC muscle builds up the pressure (or a part of it) in the CS. The CS is connected to the glans so I wonder if these things are connected?

Ergo weak BC muscles->weak pressure in the CS->weak pressure in the glans->they don’t fill up enough.

I don’t have ED, and my CC is rock hard always. Sometimes I get the feeling that my CC’s hardness doesn’t allow my CS to expand normally, but maybe that’s just bullsh*t.

My CS is underdeveloped too I guess. How could I tell if my BC muscles are strong? I ejaqulate in a quite big distance.

I also do kegels while erect, do enlarge my glans for a short time as descriped by others in this topic. Someone suggested me doing kegels only while flacid. I also got the feeling that after a while my penis gets warmed up and the CC will little bit soften and I like that more. If it is rock hard it’s just too rough, can’t really tell why. The other thing is when I kegel while erect it’s like I would have to work nonstop to maintain big glans and this sucks! It is also a different feeling if I don’t do anything with my kegels and just let my dick stay this way. I think it’s not normal to kegel a lot while sex, is it?

Ok I noticed a diffrent thing. If I push with my fingers between my anus and testicles, where the BC muscle is, then I get full glans. It keeps it’s full shape until I press. I really don’t know if this is a vein issue or underdeveloped BC muscle, or some other muscle is underdeveloped? Anyway if my glans doesn’t become full then intercourse hurts and it was always this case. :-\

Please help!

Maybe try something like this, cayance. They sell these at every adult store.

You wear it around both cock and balls. It causes some pressure against the BC which might be enough to keep your glans full.

Thanks avocet but I want to fix (or at least know) the problem without cockrings.

after a vein get embolized. where does the blood flow when exiting the penis? are new viens going to form?

I’m pretty sure this is how every guy is? That’s what I always thought. It’s the same way for me.

The CS has been described as a clown balloon…push one end, and the other end will expand out. I think that’s whats happening when you press your finger down between your nuts n anus.

It just flows out of other veins. I was told there is a possibility that the embolized vein would ‘rebranch’, form new veins & start leaking again. Guess we’ll wait & see, but so far so good.

Sometimes I exercise my PC msucle/CS. After an erection/orgasm, when I’m only about 30 % erect I’ll press down like you…kegel, fill the glans up then let them subside. I’ll do the same while lightly pressing on my CS at the base of my dick. Doing this every now and then seems to help for some reason.

Yata, when you had your leak, before surgery, would your erections subside in a matter of seconds, immediately after manual stimulation was ceased?

For example, you would manually stimulate your penis into an erection and continue to manually stimulate, then cease the stimulation. Would your erections subside in a few seconds? From erect to limp in a few seconds? What about after the surgery?

For me, when I manually stimulate, as soon as I let go, immediately the blood just rushes out of my dick, in a few seconds, i’m completely flaccid. Sometimes I can’t even really reach the full erection point because the blood loss is so rapid, I feel.

What about for all you people that read this?

If I kept a finger on the vein, it would stay up a while. Maybe 15 seconds. That said, I was in a terrible place mentally at the time, so that made it worse.

If I took the finger off, the head would immediately shrink dramatically, and the erection would lose its angle in maybe 5 - 10 seconds.

Post surgery, there are still times that I’ll have an erection and it will go down quite quickly, but if I’m with a girl and properly warmed up erections keep their angle without stimulation for 20 seconds +, sometimes if I’m feeling really good and horny 1 minute +

Additionally, since I can now kegel blood in (couldn’t before) my penis stays hard almost indefinitely from vaginal stimulation, which is the important thing.

What about when you actually kegel? For me, I can manually stimulate myself to erection, remove hands, then hold a kegel as long as possible. My erection stays for about 1 second, then slowly falls limp (and when I put my hand near the base I can feel the blood gushing out).

I’ve just been scared about seeing the doctor and gettin a dopplar sonogram test, since this is the “last step.” I need some encouragement. Now that school is about done I WILL see him no doubt, but i’m just scared and have been putting him off, one reason, I don’t want to feel embarassed when doing the doppler sonogram. What if I shrink up really small and they can’t even perform the test.

You are going about this all wrong.

First, you are not going to the doctor to impress him with your size. Second, no matter how shameful the experience might be in your head, remember that you are doing this to find the best solution for your health. The alternative is to get pissed off every time you lose an erection. Stop throwing fits, there is nothing manly about addressing this problem. Go in and get your self checked out.

I hate doctors, but like it or not I have to keep contact with them. The truth hurts when it is bad, but it is better to know, at least that way you can look for a solution to the problem. This way you deny your self the chance to get better.

These kinds of problems have a funny way of fucking your head, and I am sure that the last thing you want to do in bed with someone is worry about your erection. Go. Now. May the schlong be with you.

Hmm my glands are NEVER hard unless I hold a kegel,soon as I stop it deflats into a soft spongy state,does that sound like a venous leakage?

One thing I notice since PEing is that it takes more to get me off and I can take more so I catch myself holding back,not wanting to pop but if I let go I get more inflated and bigger rather then popping,maybe there is a state of psychological adjustment that isn’t being accounted for?

Either way just to make sure, soft glans do not = venous leakage right?

Yea you are fine. Maybe you would have some concern if your glans wasn’t hard even while holding a kegel. But probably not.

I don’t think endurance matters much; if anything, your endurance would go down, in my opinion.

I don’t think you have anything to worry about though.

No It is spongy as hell always. I can hold a kegel but that just makes it bigger,still spongy.

I’m asking is the head supposed to be “hard”?
I thought it was basically cartilage like material on top of the corpus Co(whatever)

Now a few times I recall in the paste holding a Uli and sliding it up,then the head became huge and tight,I don’t think I popped a vein or anything but really

Guys is the fucking head supposed to be hard? And if it isn’t is this just means I should do more kegels till it gets that way or did I pop my vein or some stuff like that?

Invictus:trust me my head looks tiny like smaller then the shaft,so If I’m supposed to get real pumped I want to know.