Oral Sex: Let's turn the subject around

Since we are on the subject, let’s look at the other side.

What works/doesn’t work for you when you are getting a blow job?

I dont get off on blowjobs one bit…

my gfs mouth is tiny small, she can barely get the head in, and when it is, she has not much room left to wiggle about her mini-tongue…

she has tried licking too, but her tongue just simple cannot exert enough pressure for me to feel anything much….

infact, as I was leaning over her to fiddle with something, she took my hard dick head into her mouth and started sucking…

I thought I felt something!

heh :(

maybe one day she’ll learn to deep-throat and things might change :)

Its been quite a while but i love it when a women gets nasty on it.By that i mean licking and slurping and showing that they at least somewhat enjoy it.And other nasty(to some) things like slapping it against her tounge and rubbing it onher face and sucking and tounging the balls.this stuff drives me crazy but the qwomen who dig that are few and far between lol.

The best thing for me is if they swallow it all! Or at least let me come in their mouth. Now, that’s an amazing feeling. It happened to me only a few times unfortunately.

Some girls are much better than others in giving oral but I can never say exactly what is it they do that makes it so good. It has to be wet, it’s nice to have their hand on my shaft at the same time. I also like it if the motion is round, instead of just up and down, if you see what I mean.

I like to use my dick to slap them on their face a little, they seem to love it too. All this is after I started PE. Before, I didn’t have enough mass in order to use it for slapping, it would have just seem pathetic. :)

(and thanks Rocco for reminding me of the word - ‘slap’)

Most important - she must enjoy it!

Then I want a hand on the shaft and a very wet bj, and no teeth!

I also want to see her mouth and eyes, that´s nice.

Favourite position is probably me straddling her, f*cking her mouth.

Slapping the face and cumming in her mouth or on her face or chest doesn´t hurt either.

All this becomes void unless she really likes it though, I´m not into the whole I-do-you-so-you-do-me thing.

Only met one girl, so far, that´s been into this enough and at the same time gf material. The search goes on ;)

This boy is in the Rocco camp. Ooooh that straddle position. I’m getting a hard-on just thinking about it. To cum while being hand stroked at the bottom of the shaft, and licked and sucked at the head is the ultimate orgasm- and yes I have fucked some really tight, wet, energetic pussies! No comparison. I’m working on getting the wife to deep throat me. An interesting technique was given in another post here at Thunder’s Place. Yet it will be one of those “if I do this…you have to do…” things. Mine is like that except when she has had a little too muck to drink and I have fucked her a long time. She not the type that has multiple orgasms- she cums like a guy; once it’s over it’s over. She’ll then be obligated take me in her mouth. That’s the paradox, she’ll willing suck me dry only when she has cum before I have. Believe me, I work hard on control.

Avocet8 asked: “What works/doesn’t work for you when you are getting a blow job?”

I’ll base my response on the sexual activity that my wife and I had last night. I love oral sex - both giving and receiving. It is my most favorite sexual activity. Yesterday, while I was doing the monthly bills, my wife came up to me out of the blue and laid the deepest tongue kiss on me. I was pleasantly surprised, since we’ve had only intercourse once since she had serious surgery in August. She was out of work for months and still has lingering equilibrium problems. Her dizziness makes having intercourse feel like she’s on a rocky boat trip with accompanying seasickness. This does not make for hot sex for either of us.

Needless to say, our sex life has taken a hiatus since summer. So her forwardness yesterday was very welcome. And what was even more welcome was her saying that she wanted to have sex later that night. To make a long story short, we got in bed after our daughter went to sleep. We talked for about an hour and were both quite relaxed. We started kissing, and things got intense very quickly. I could tell that her body was finally responding like it used to prior to surgery. I didn’t hesitate but quickly moved south to her vagina and started to go to work. I get incredibly turned on by licking her pussy and clitoris and feeling her get wetter. I grabbed on to both of her legs and sucked and tongued for all it was worth. She came in a huge way and had to push me away because the orgasm was so intense.

Now came my turn which also brings me to my response to Avocet8’s question. After a minute or so, she eagerly reciprocated, pushed me on my back and commenced to blow me in the most excellent way that she does. Obviously, I was very ready. She took me into her mouth, kept the action very wet and moist, began with a medium pressure on the head of my dick and gradually built up her tonguing pressure and up and down movement. Then to enhance the whole experience, she gently used her hands to take and squeeze both of my nipples between her fingers while continuing to blow me. This combination is enough to send me over the edge. Very early in my life through self-exploration, I discovered that my nipples were one of the most erogenous areas of my body. I’m fortunate to have a partner that knows this and uses it to please me.

My wife also enjoys when I cum into her mouth. Once I orgasm, she will always continue to suck my cock until every last drop of cum has been drained and swallowed. Believe me, I am thankful that she loves to do this as much as I love having this done.

Interestingly, after we were finished she asked me if I minded that she had sucked me off rather than having regular intercourse. I don’t think I need to tell you that my response was a definite NO.

So that’s it. In summary getting sucked while having my nipples played with and then having every last ounce of cum drained out of me and swallowed are what works for me when getting a BJ.

Peforeal

Wow, peforeal, that was an excellent story!

I bet you then woke up and realised it was just a dream

myeight,

I woke up this morning still naked, with a lingering woody, fuller than normal and still with a smile on my face. Unlike Bobby Ewing’s death in one of the cliffhanger episodes of tv’s former nighttime soap opera “DALLAS”, this was no dream. Here’s to more BJ’s in the future!

Peforeal

Well I’m hard now. Nice one peforeal. :clap:

My (now ex…. recently) girlfriend absolutely did not how to suck my dick. That doesn’t mean she’s bad at it necessarily, just bad at sucking mine. She never used the hand-mouth combo, which is essential if I’m gonna cum from it. No matter how many times I’d try to school her nicely, she never picked up on it.

I’d sit back and watch her suck it till it was soft. Great. Fucking boring!

That is only one aspect of my dissatisfaction with her sexually, though.

My first love was really good at it. Used her hands, talked dirty in between slurps, she would even whip her long silky hair on my torso while she sucked. What a fuckin’ turn-on! Feeling my head hit the back of her throat really helps to shorten my longevity, if you get my meaning…

The more a girl enjoys it, the better it is for me. And usually if they like doing it, they’ll be better at it. Especially if bj’s are given freely with no strings attached.

It’s been so long since I got one, it’s hard to say. But I do vaguely remember how great it was from a woman who really enjoyed giving head. She was a self-proclaimed nympho and I still miss her. -sniff, sniff-

Sorry to mix threads and ideas a little bit here, but there was an interesting post in the hetero/homo thread that made me think of this thread:

This is a great point. I totally agree. Being male, and especially after starting PE, I appreciate and know cocks so much better. I’m sure most of us here - regardless of our sexual orientation - feel the same.

I do feel somehow let down when I feel the women I have sex with don’t know how to fully appreciate, admire, enjoy and understand :) my cock like it truly deserves to be. I’m sure gay men are better at this, though - thankfully - some rare women do too.

Btw - touching on yet another thread (the dominance one), I have to say that all the women I met that were into being controlled, belonged to those rare true cock admirers. When they gave head, they were truly into it!

To the other women I sometimes feel like saying: “What’s the matter with you? Do *I* have to explain to *you* how wonderful this thing is??? You are the one that is supposed to enjoy it best!” :rolleyes:

Good blow jobs, imo, are not a natural talent. Takes some learning. If your M/F partners are inclined, teach them what feels best to you. If it also feels good to them, you are in for special times more often.

Always reciprocate in some way special to them. Giving gets.