Push Out for better orgasms
I found this on another forum. Anybody here have some better tips on this technique? And using it during sex, not just masturbating.
“For the past few months, I’ve been doing a particular set of things when I play with myself that (to me) makes ejaculations feel much more powerful.
I’ve always known about the PC and BC muscles. The PC muscle is the muscle that both stops urine flow and also rhythmically contracts to “squirt” semen out, while the BC muscle is what pushes poop out and also “pushes” your urine stream out stronger. Squeezing on your PC makes it nearly impossible to push out with the BC and vice versa.Once I came to fully understand that relationship, I wondered what would happen if you pushed on your BC muscle when your body wants to ejaculate. At first, it felt nearly impossible to control the BC when your body almost instinctively squeezes the PC during masturbation/intercourse.
Once I started to better control/detect the muscles, I tried to masturbate without putting any force on my PC and very lightly pushing out on my BC muscle. One thing that I noticed is that my erection got softer, but after enough stimulation, it would get just as hard as it would would be without the help of the PC muscle. During the whole masturbation session, I had a MASSIVE urge to squeeze on the PC, but I resisted.
The moment I started feeling the orgasm set in, the feeling was incredible. You can almost feel the prostate’s sphincter loosen up and release the semen without the help of your PC muscle, which in turn gives you a strong “orgasmic” feeling deep in the core of your genitals which I can only describe as your body trying to increase the pleasure to a point in which a PC contraction is completely involuntary despite the resistance.
For the first 0.5”-1.5” seconds of your orgasm, you will get that orgasmic feeling as semen either dribbles or flows like urine out of your penis. After that, your body will FINALLY give you that squeeze you so violently crave at this point.The first PC muscle squeeze feels INSANE. Most likely because its going from “no squeeze” to “full squeeze” vs the normal “moderate-high squeeze” to “full squeeze”. Since your urethra is already filled with semen due to it flowing out just seconds before, the PC muscle not only squeezes out the existing semen, but also pushes out more from the prostate.
Have you ever ejaculated a large enough volume to feel the “weight” of your semen? That’s how that first spurt feels. The subsequent ones are also quite powerful whether or not you already ejaculated all of your semen (based on how much your body produces and the last time you ejaculated, the first spurt may be the only one, but the rest of the contractions still feel very great)
The great thing about this is just how you feel after. There’s a feeling of soreness that is internal, similar to the place all the pleasure is concentrated before the first contraction. Although I get a little sore immediately after ejaculation, this feeling is stronger than normal. I love urinating during that period because the feeling of urination is similar to what you feel when you massage sore muscles the day after a hard workout.
These orgasms have become so satisfying that I cant get enough. During the weekday, I masturbate 1 or 2 times before sleeping. On the weekends or days off from work, if I don’t make plans, I can go about 3-6 times in day. Every session after the previous one leaves me with a good feeling soreness. On ejaculations 3-6, they come out almost dry; a small amount will shoot out VERY strongly (2-3 ft away) followed by many dry contractions. The feeling of urination after the 6th ejaculation is like angels coming from heaven to massage you in your urethra.
Sometimes I just lay in bed thinking how great it must feel if I can get myself off just one more time, but I am too exhausted to do so, and left sore till the middle of the next day.Eventually I learned to masturbate normally and relax my PC muscle just before the point of no return, allowing me to have to same result more efficiently. This technique is only really possible for me when I masturbate. When I’m with my GF its hard to focus on those things since I’m so in the moment with her. But when I’m bored and horny, I know just how to treat myself till’ the next time we have sex Wink
Once you get good enough at controlling it, relaxing your PC muscle (and gently pushing with your BC muscle) during your masturbation session can lead to a very pleasurable orgasm with semen flowing out of your penis followed by very strong ejaculations that leave you more sore and satisfied than a ‘normal’ orgasm
Growing is Good, and feels good.
