There are other faux-pas responses, but the worst has to be: “Well, honey, there’s just more of you to love.”If it seems like a no-win situation, you can turn it around by saying: “You are beautiful” and then proceed to gently touch all the areas she is self-conscious about. The more compliments you give her, the more attractive, confident and sexually desirable she will feel and therefore be.
Women feel the same pressure about breast size that men feel about penis size. While many men might love a busty woman, most naturally well-endowed females are self-conscious about the size of their breasts.
They may have been teased when they were young. For this reason, it isn’t a good idea to say: “Wow, you are stacked. I never realised your tits were so big.”
Women with small breasts probably got teased too. But many men prefer small, perky breasts to large ones. But don’t call them “small”, just call them “beautiful”.
Do share the responsibility for birth control with your partner. This may mean buying the condoms and sharing any costs. Or it could mean going with her to the gynaecologist if she wants you to.
Don’t complain about using a condom and never pressure her to go on the pill. Take a genuine interest and discuss the subject with her. And if your lover does fall pregnant unexpectedly, don’t run away. Take on some of those lesbian communication skills and discuss it with her.
It’s up to each individual to decide whether to engage in sex while drunk or high, but at least be honest with yourself about the possible effects. Let’s just say that drug and alcohol use isn’t going to make you a Casanova.
AFTER the initial burst of charm, most men concentrate on the rush to penetration. This will not put you in the Great Lovers’ Hall of Fame.
MEN have endless questions when it comes to women’s orgasms. And so do women.Many women think something is wrong if they aren’t having orgasms through penetration and want to learn how to have vaginal orgasms.
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First of all, Kurt Brungart, sounds like a man’s name. Therefore, he has obviously lost his balls. Secondly, I will give the lesbian 50% attention, and the rest of it goes in the circular file.
Compliment, but don’t compliment. Notice her, but don’t notice her. This is exactly what the big gap problem in sexual communication is in this country, thanks to you know who. Look, But Don’t Touch. Touch, But Don’t Taste. Taste, But Don’t Swallow. When is the madness going to end?
Formerly known as Sex&Guns. R.I.P.