She said 9

From what I`ve been told, by women friends, is that size does matter,
although thickness or girth is the most important aspect.
They say length is great, but they would rather have width than length, for length is a waste. Although in saying that, they also said if you had both, then thats a bonus.

Goodluck!!!

Hi

take this being incentive to stick to our exercises. It doesn’t have to take a long time until you get 9.

Cheers and good luck

Andreas
Bangkok

I´d be a bit sensetive about that too, my suggestion is to move on to other girls, no use in dwelling on some ex. Yeah I know, it´s hard to let go and since she makes you feel insecure you want to really show her and all that, but why? Move on, find someone who doesn´t talk about other guys dicks unless you ask for it. Personally I just hate that, you´re not talking about how big and firm some other girls tits were, right? … RIGHT!? ;)

BTW, I had a size discussion with a female just the other day and she thought about 17-18 cm (6.75”-7”) in lenght was the perfect size and just shivered at the thought of something bigger. So, they´re all different.

well said rocco.

rolo

I’d like to meet her….sounds like a keeper!

I’ve had the same discussion with a number of females and I’ve also discovered that the “perfect” size was around 17-18cm like you said, and 13-14cm in girth. It seems like they’re not all that different, eh? ;) . One of the girls even said that she would rather not have sex with anything bigger than 7”x5.5”-7”x6”, because of pain.

Hmm.. this about “girls” often wants no more than 7”x6” or so, wait untill they are “woman” and maybe have a child or two, then it´s a whole ´nuther story.

At 6.5”x5”, when I was younger, I met only ONE girl of many, that I filled up, all other could easily take more, especially girth wise.

Most girls that have given birth prefer 6-6.5” girth IMO. Not many want more than 8” length though.

So, if you count with mature girls with children, seems like the ideal size (beating that old horse again) is close to 8”x6.5”. This I base on many girls with and without children, and starting with a size of about 6.5”x5” and now 8”x6”.

/Pan

As many will recall, I have rambled for pages and pages about the capacity and adaptability of the vagina.

The conclusions appear to be thus:

There is a *rough* length limit that is specific to the woman in particular. it could be 5” or it could be 12”. depends on the girl. Depends on time of month and many other factors probably.

As for girth, well, I’ve seen anything up to and including 12” girth or more (!), so you can pretty much safely assume that your woman will adapt to anything you can accomplish with PE in a gradual manner.

Of course, if you are naturally 4 or 5” girth, and do some extreme pumping up to say 9” girth, and take a double dose of viagra, you wouldn’t expect your lady to take to it too fondly straight away or easily :D

My girlfriend can personally take me comfortably at any time, and she can take almost the entire 9”+ or length when she is at her “horniest” part of her cycle. For the record, she is petite, only a bit above 5’ tall and slender.

Well, as I’ve said before, I don’t plan on nailing any women who’ve had children (thinking of ~26-28+ age), in a long time. So I’d say I’d still be able to fill up a few ladies :) .

And btw, if a woman who’s had a child just does her kegels properly (as they often get told by their doctors to do after child birth), I’ve heard of cases in which the woman has actually gotten tighter than before birth, just because she’s done some kegels 3 weeks after the birth. I’m not sure I believe all of that “once a woman has had a child, she can’t get as tight as before”-talk. I’m just criticising here :P.

The way I read your story is you’ve had sex with her, she’s had sex with someone who happens to have a larger dick, and now she wants to have sex with you again. I’d say it’s in your head. Obviously she enjoyed being with you or she wouldn’t want to again. You must have done something right eh? If you look at things that way, you’re a stud.

Not even going to get into all the relationship part. Good luck.

Good point tps.

I agree with tps, if she wants you, and she knows what you have then why fret? Obviously it was something she liked, right?

By the way about the perfect size my wife has trouble taking my 7.5” and says anything over eight would be sick. But she did say that bigger is better up to that point. She has vaginally given birth to our two children and is as tight if not tighter than before.

I think its a combo of my extra girth and her kegals. It clamps around me, nice and… oh man, I need to go home now.

But seriously, I think shes just as tight as before and my extra girth makes it feel tighter than ever. What a wonderful life.

Peace and God Bless

believer, what’s your girth?

My girth is 5.25 (grown from 5”) midshaft, not huge but much bigger than 5.5 and I can say bye bye to oral. And I’m not about to do that.

I plan to take whatever girth I get from 8.5 BP (unless it’s too much) and if my girth isn’t 5.5 at that point, I’ll start doing some squeezes and stuff.

Peace and God Bless

Yes, do exactly what ssjelq said. “Stick it up her ass”… You will feel better about things after that no matter what is going on in your head… I can imagine how you feel because no matter what your size I think most girls will tell you they have been with bigger… I know I’ve been told that a couple of time but I didn’t let that bother me at all because at that time they choose to be fucking you rather then the other guy… Is this girl now only interested in having sex with black people? I would ask her that first before I invested any more time with her…

It may be that she just prefers blacks to other races for sex or it could be the luck of the draw… I know I had three black g/f’s in a row because they were hot and wanted me when I was available for the taking… It could be the same way with her… If for some reason she only wants black guys then leave her to her business but not before you give her a good ass fucking…

…I think most girls will tell you they have been with bigger…

I think that it is more accurate to say “many” rather than most. And I think that the reason that they do this is to keep you humble, make you insecure and needy for them and thier validation. Its a mindfuck, manipulation tool. Recognise it for what it is and don’t be phased by it.