My advice is to do what Hobby suggested and not muck around with trying to adjust T and E2 values on your own if you don’t even know what they are.
Normally, T and E are in good balance due to a _very_ complicated sort of ballet that goes on all the time in our hormonal systems. When T rises a little too high, it becomes “aromatized” and changes into E2, which is Estrodiol. Then you make more T. Then you make more E. And there are other compounds at work, as well. The dance goes on nicely, and successfully. The sex parts of the choreography play out well, your libido is in a good place; secondary female sexual characteristics are held at bay, actually off to Stage Left, where they belong. You don’t have to think about diet, so long as you eat a balanced one. It all just works.
Sometimes the dance gets screwed up and you, the dancer, don’t know how or why. But if you decide to manage your own hormonal system instead of letting experts do it - try to increase your own T by whatever means or lower your E, you throw things off further and become the dying swan, right there on stage in front of a packed house. Get checked, if your libido is off or other signs of hormonal imbalance are there.
Soy products: It will take a whole lot of convincing to convince me that soy is bad for you in this way. I live in a very Asian environment. We all (well, most of us) eat a lot of soy in various forms and have for a very long time. The Japanese and Chinese residents of Hawaii are not stumbling around on the dance floor and a lot of them eat tofu every day of life. I don’t know anybody who doesn’t use soy sauce in some of their cooking. We even pop edame (blanched soy beans) as snacks. There seems no evidence that soy is a no-no.