Too big?

I kind of agree, but considering how long it will take to get to 9.5x6.5 or larger, I figure it is still a safe goal. I’m more likely to meet someone long-term first, then adapt final goals to them/the max they can take, vs hitting that size, then finding out I can’t use it. I guess this is why if I could go to sleep and wake up with any size I wanted overnight…I’d probably adapt to something more reasonable like 8 NBPEL x 6 or something…then PE from there if I wanted to.

As for going all the way in…at least for me I think it is an equal turn-on for a girl to take it all vs to have too much for her to take. If she could take it all then I’d always wonder how much more COULD she take..but if you have too much, then that’s never going to happen. Also it takes the wind out of any sails should she ever say she has had larger…if she can’t take it all, then really the most she can ever have had is the same amount that actually went in.

Last night I had the most incredible EQ I’ve had in probably ten years. I owe it to the PE I’ve been performing. I was so hard it was almost painful. I looked and felt like I was finally back up to my 8 1/4 inches but obviously I didn’t measure. During intercourse with my wife, she cried out numerous times about my size. She’s never done this before. I am quite sure I was messaging the end of her CDS and possibly just a little farther in. She was very turned on because she was dripping wet.
Even so, she told me afterward that I was at her max. She couldn’t take anymore if she wanted to.

The point here is that 7 X 5 up to 8 X 6 should be ‘in the zone’ for almost all women. My wife has had bigger than me and she said it was the worst sex she’s ever had. She was wooed by the big dick, (9.5 X 6) I’m assuming because she held her hands out next to mine while I was hard for comparison. She said she couldn’t take it all no matter what she did. Does that sound like something you guys want? Not me. I PE for health and EQ. If I start getting bigger than my max, I’ll cut back. I do this for the pleasure not the ego.

If you are 5 X 4, then PE should get you to 7 X 5 with dedication and application. Perfect for almost all women. In the mean time, work on your skills in the bedroom. I give my wife multiple squirting orgasms with my hands and several clitoral orgasms with my tongue. It’s all in the technique and a great deal of loving. I almost always start with a sensual message. She grabs my dick and constantly begs me to enter her. I don’t. I build her up past her plateaus and put it in when I want to push her ove the brink. Your dick is a tool. Use it properly but in conjunction with the other tools in your tool box.

Roll with the flow. We don’t always have great sex. Some days it’s just good. There are days that I struggle with ED. So what. I’ve got other tools and they work great. Don’t get hung up over getting a massive rod. Get in the zone and learn how to use it. Women will be lining up at your door begging for it.

+1

Well said my bother. Prior to this little 5’2” Spanish fly I have in my life right now, I loved to tease women with my foreplay skills. But this one right here, this little Spanish fly she is not into any type of foreplay at all, if there is any, it is barely. She just wants me to bang the living shit out of her pussy and anal, pull her hair, spank her and bite her. We were together initial but I broke up with her but we remained friends with benefits; she’s 9 years older than me and she made it clear she wants my penis to stay in her life until I find a girlfriend. Right now I am to the point where I do not want to get serious with no one and I just want to have friends with benefits for at least the next few years. :-)

Female input..

We women, just like you men, are all different sizes. Some of us are shallow (short), some of us are deep (long), some are wide, some narrow. Some shaped for a man who is curved, some for a straight-shaft.

If you want to imagine what a woman feels like with a too-large penis.. Try putting on socks or underwear that are many sizes too small. Child-sized, even. Some women enjoy being stretched, for most, it is extremely uncomfortable, painful, and even harmful in some cases. Some women enjoy having their cervix rammed.. Most don’t, or only do upon the height of arousal.

My first 2 partners were “average”, not impressive, but not embarrassing either. My 3rd was average length, but very narrow. That was not very enjoyable for me, plus coupled with his obnoxious personality, our relationship was short-lived. My 4th partner I never had sex with, because he was so wide, we couldn’t even find specialty condoms to fit, and I was not on any sort of birth control at the time. #5 was well-endowed, and while it was enjoyable when I was extremely aroused, it was uncomfortable if I was not, and we often had to adjust out position because he would hit things. He frequently told me about how his first lover would bleed profusely if he put any more than 2 inches of the tip into her. He was my longest-running relationship (7 years), and I came to think that I was “built” for a well-endowed man, but maybe just a tad shorter due to my internal shape. I am currently with a man who is on the smaller side of average, and suffers a degree of ED, but enjoy him quite well. But we have also been best friends for 18 years, and he is quite skilled in foreplay to make up for his “shortcomings”.. Enjoyment in intimacy is more than just size and performance.

Frankentrina,

What is your body type? Just curious how it may have an effect on your preference. Thank you for giving a woman’s perspective in a place where wild speculation and imagination can run amuck.

Thanks for your input! A lady’s perspective is always welcome.