Too much alcohol and PE/health.

I am going thorugh a bit of a tough spell at the moment. I usually don’t drink much and am a fitness fanatic. But atm I am drinking maybe 2-3 cans of beer or some vodka and smoking a j most days just to feel relaxed. I’d prefer that than anti-depressenants. What. I’m wondering is how much will this effect my PE and overall sexual health? I’m trying to get fit and exercising/eating ok but can’t stay sobre too long.

If interested the reason for me becoming like this is though I have been depressed/anxious on and off for a long time I used to just whack off to porn all day to feel better but now I have made a point off stopping that to improve PE and erections so find nothing to do unless getting high or just enough to relax.

You are a long way from getting in trouble with the alcohol, but you are also going down the wrong path as far as relieving your depression/anxiety. Alcohol after all is a depressant. If you weren’t already into exercise, I would say go out for a jog or something to relax. Maybe meditate or listen to some music.

Are you getting enough sleep? Are you under stress from your job, relationships or financial?

Man I’m just stressed cause relationships/friendships and lack of direction. Wasn’t planning a whole emotive post (got another one on this forum) just wondering if what I’m doing is too little to cause any health/PE affects.

But to cut a long-story short. Firstly, I was sick off acne, so never socialised, lost friends, then sunbathed like a mofo to get rid off acne, now have the face off an 97 year old despite being 24 and making it even harder to socialise. I’m so subconscious of how I look. I can’t believe how much I fucked my face, all red, saggy, scars and fine lines and wrinkles. Every time I look in the mirror I feel shit and I have been trying to treat this for months and only improved a little. When I’m in a pub/club and go in the toilets with those fluorescent lights it knock my confidence down too zero, so I avoid going out until my skin is fixed. Well, before I was studying so no matter how much problems I had I still had to study and go to exams etc and kinda focused. Now I am graduated 2 years and all I do are shitty jobs with minimal people contact and try and avoid life as much as possible. I just want to get fit, get a big cock and repair my skin before I try to go back out into the real world. But even looking in mirrors in the house makes my depressed so I have a drink or two if not exercising.

But I really hate people looking at me or talking too me in person now cause my skin is soooo fucked up. If it never repairs I’m fucked. Even my Granny has smoother younger skin and shes is 80odd.

Even fucking up my sex life. If I get sex I only like doggy etc if lights on. I don’t like to be looked at so close. So, sometimes I get drunk go to hookers and after it feel worse than before. Cause I really don’t want to do it right now but I hate close contact with people and it get’s to a point you gotta do it though. But that’s not fun.

It’s shit man I’ve become obsessed. I have an obsessive peronality but it used to be about muscles and working out and PE etc. Now, I just obsess over my skin more than anything, look in the mirror all day and punch myself in the face. LOL I’m fucked in the head. At least before my obsession used to be constructive and make me feel good. It even getting to the point I hate working out. I’ll be working out and look in the mirror and be like what the fucking point in getting in shape with my face so fucked anyway plus getting fit only givesd me more acne to add to the problems.

This shit is on my head all the time can’t even relax and watch a movie or football, just stare at the actors/footballers and compare there skin too mine and shit. LOL I’m crazy I know haha. Fuck it I’m doomed.

Fuck it. I even recently met an old friend from school. He looked ok, skin perfect, hair cool, looking slim and young. Guess what he was a smack/crackhead for years and just got out of jail after 10 months for dealing. LOL and he looks better/healthier/younger than me. That’s how much I fucked up my skin.

Right not being gay but obvioulsey Cristiano Ronaldo is a man who loves his sun. This is what happened to me but much worse (poor example but you get idea):

Before:

After:

If I were you I would seek some counseling. I don’t mean this in a hurtful way, but the problems you are facing are very common. Feeling inadequate happens to everyone whether they should or not, hence all the guys with big dicks in this forum. Having a huge dong is completely unnecessary for living a happy life, yet there are probably millions of people who are unhappy because of their normal dick.

I go through the same problems and instead of facing them sometimes I just get shut off from the world, the exact opposite of what I should be doing. Going to the gym and interacting with people makes me happy but when your in a bad place you can tend to make things worse. For example I went to the bar the other night right after popping a zit and I was so self conscious about it I was anti-social and probably just looked like an ass to all the people I was with.

My point out of all of this is you don’t have to have a great penis, or great skin in your case to be happy. Obsessing about things tends to just make your problems with depression and anxiety worse. Think about things you like to do and do them, go to the gym, rent a movie that makes you happy, just start doing things that make you feel productive. If you can’t get to a better place by yourself then go see someone, trust me depression is the most commonly treated psychological problem and it’s usually caused by feeling some sort of inadequacy.

The only person who is keeping you from being happy is yourself and just like PE it takes time, work on it every day. Good luck buddy, and don’t take life too seriously or your never get out alive.

Smoothoperator said it way better than me. You are blowing your face issue way way out of proportion and making it worse then it really is. You really should find someone to talk to who can bring you back down to reality.

Problem is I used to like being shut off from the world. I’d watch movies all day, play comp, watch porn and was happy. Now, I’m just so pissed about the sun damage I can’t relax within myself anymore. Like I say if I have time alone in the house and glance in the mirror I get angry for using those sunbeds etc. Even at work glancing in reflective surfaces, it brings me crashing down. Beforehand I would be happy chilling and had nothing to get me angry in my home. If you understand? Maybe I sound like a little girl here, but that’#s the way my brain works.

Before, my acne was mainly on my back so it depressed me but it wasn’t always on my mind becuase it wasn’t visible to me during normal activities.