Touching the Cervix

About eight years ago, right after sex, this woman tells me (without me asking, hinting or wanting to know) that a previous partner was much longer than me and that reaching further into her vagina helped her orgasm every time they had sex.

A couple years ago, after I had grown a bit from PE, I was having sex with this same female and my head pressed against her cervix several times. An hour or so later I asked if that was her cervix. I was curious and excited because I’m not a gynecologist, so I’d never touched anyone’s cervix. She immediately told me that since she gave birth six months before then that her cervix had dropped and that was the reason for this. I was shocked by her response, but moved on. Within a month she had put on close to 30 pounds (13.6 kilos). I noticed this extra padding on her stomach and thighs prevented me from reaching as far I had before.

Fast forward to March/April of this year. She’s gotten a little bigger, but I’ve grown as well and have been touching her cervix more often. Recently, during sex, while she was on her stomach and I was behind her, she started grinding her cervix against the tip of my dick. She was looking back at me hungrily - like a fox might look at a chicken. It was some pretty good sex. The next day I asked her about how that felt to her. She informed me that it wasn’t her cervix rubbing the tip of my dick - she said she was kegeling and that it was her side/top walls I was feeling.

I don’t do a touchdown dance or run all over the room like I just scored a goal every time I bottom out. Also, I’m not pounding away on it to cause her pain, but I don’t understand why someone would be weird about this.

Have any of you had an issue with a woman having a mental/psychological problem with you bottoming out in her?

Wild guess: Power?!

There are mainly two indications:
1. She told you, without you indicating, that she had bigger - this supposedly should make you feel inferior, giving her some power
2. She keeps denying that you hit the end, bottom out, so that you dont get conceited and have power over her or sth.

Dunno.
For some, sex is mainly a power thing - heard this somewhere.
Sorry for not being more eloquent about this, Im too tired atm, you should still get my point.

Unfortunately, this is the reality of about half of women. It is about ego and power and control but my experience is it’s mostly their insecurity and fear. They knock their men down a peg to their level so the guy won’t go find better or will appreciate what he has. I’m guessing she’s a fire sign, probably a Leo! :D

@seand11

Obviously. How can a woman be secure, when the only thing she has to offer, her looks, is something temporary?

Ahahaha :D

Haha, truth. I like this quote: “Stroke a man’s dick and he’ll love you for the night; stroke his ego and he’ll love you forever.” I’m not sure why most women can’t figure this out.

On good nights when my erections are at their best, I hit my wife’s cervix. There’s nothing quite like feeling that slightly gristly object giving way to my glans and seeing the look on my wife’s face as she starts orgasming uncontrollably. That’s definitely an ego trip. A better ego trip is not needing a woman’s opinion of you for validation.

Quit asking her if you hit bottom. Find your own value in hard work and self love. You know you are getting bigger and that is all you need.

I’ve never touched my wife’s cervix. I can feel it with my fingers but never when I’m in her.

You are giving this too much thought IMO.

If the girl is happy sexually, then do not occupy yourself with these kind of thoughts.

Thanks guys. She brought up the cervix thing initially - When she told me of guys being much longer than me she also stated that no one had ever touched her cervix except a gynecologist. Once I started to bottom out and she began denying, it started to look like she may have been lying the whole time.

I’m more concerned with why anyone would make up this information without being asked. That was why I was asking if anyone else had heard of such a thing.

The comments about power and self-esteem seem fairly accurate.

Titlest …….I am exactly like you. I can feel it with my finger but have only hit it once and that was with two pillows under her. It was very painful for her.

So glad to see you post that since YOU if any guy on this forum would be able to crow about hitting the cervix all the time considering your size.

What is it about our wives’ cervixes which make them so immune to our hitting them. Anybody with info that can help us pertaining to female anatomy.

I should clarify. I’ve hit it once. The first time we had sex. It caused a lot of pain. Now I know how to make love to her without hitting it. The biggest thing is she really tents after orgasm. I always eat her first so her cervix isn’t an issue.