Went to see the psycho-sexual doctor.

I had my appointment with the psycho-sexual specialist at the hospital today, regarding my premature ejaculation.

I stated from the outset that, although I do have psychological issues around sex and women, I believe my tendency to spurt too soon purely physical.

Of course one cannot seperate the body from the mind, but I don’t believe this specific problem has its root in the psycho-logical realm.

It was clear however that this doctor believes the root of most problems like mine to be largely psychological, although he said that of course genetics would play a part as well.

Anyway we took a look back through my mildly fucked up childhood (yawn, as I have done so many times in the past) and I was crying my eyes out as usual, and it revealed that, as I already knew, I have a lot of anxiety around pleasing a woman.

The long and short of it is that, he wants me to time myself masturbating, from the moment that I’m fully aroused to the point of ejaculation, without stoping, cumming as soon as I can, in order to get a ‘base’ of how long it takes me to ejaculate.

Then he wants me to see how long I can go on for ‘edging’ ie. stoping before orgasm and continuing before I lose my erection.

He also wants me to wank and stop just before orgasm, a number of times stoping earlier and earlier each time in order to identify the beginning of the approach of orgasm.

We talked about anti-depressants, but he said he wouldn’t prescribe them for me at this early point.

It’s so fucking frustrating!!! It’s a very simple thing. Why oh why, can’t we just try the drugs and see what happens?!

JUST GIVE ME THE FUCKING DRUGS MOTHERFUCKER!!!!!!

Ah, yes, the “easy way” with pills. Pills won’t solve this problem, they’ll only make you feel better about it. How do you think being less anxious will “cure” your premature ejaculation? In the end, I suspect the doc is headed toward psychotherapy that will help you understand why you are anxious about pleasing women and when you understand it, he’ll help you overcome it. It will be easier if you let him make the treatment decisions rather than forcing him to accept yours.

Prozac is known to help premature ejaculation. Better living thru Med’s, next Oprah :)

Shrinks are kind of “funny”, I went to one for a while, after a sibling died, and even after I was feeling pretty good mentally, he kept having me come back month after month. I finally just stopped going.

Tough call on what to do, hang with him for a bit, and try someone else if you are not satisfied after a short term.

Ziggs

Sounds like a PE program, that’s how I got to be able to last so long while I jelq and squeeze I stay pretty close to the edge. You don’t seem mental Bro try to stay away from the meds.

You could have gotten the same advise here but then you wouldn’t have gotten to go visit the nice doctor. ;)

From the guy who recommended horsechestnut powder for PE injuries. As far as I can tell nobody else has tried that common natural remedy for varicose veins yet. Oh well, sure seems to work for me. So I am probably one of the most eclectic supplement experimenters in the world judging by how few people seem to know about what I routinely take and do on a daily basis. Here would be my guess at a solution to your problem Ziggaman. TMG. This is trimethylglycine. What it does from Life Extension Foundation website… TMG is also called glycine betaine, but the name “trimethylglycine” signifies that it has three methyl groups attached to each molecule of glycine.5 Betaine was discovered to be beneficial to heart health back in the 1950’s.6-10* Research showing TMG’s ability to promote healthy levels of homocysteine alone or in conjunction with other nutrients, confirms its status as an important nutrient for cardiovascular health.11-18* When a TMG methyl group is donated to a molecule of homocysteine, it is converted first to the nontoxic amino acid, methionine, then to S-adenosyl-methionine (SAMe).19* From BeyondACentury.com: L-METHIONINE is a sulfur containing amino acid especially useful as a detoxifying agent by the liver as a precursor of SAMe. Always take with B6, B12, TMG, & folic acid to avoid formation of homocysteine and to promote production of SAMe. Taking methionine before sex may slow orgasm response by reducing histamine levels. 500mg, 100 caps, $9.60.

Found in the catalog section Amino Acids. Also from beyondacentury: SAMe, a combination of L-methionine and ATP, is a methyl-donor that enhances mood and brain function which may help depression in high doses, promotes detoxification of the liver, relieves osteoarthritis pain, reduces homocysteine, and is useful for energy and fat loss. Side effects are rare and minor. People with bipolar (manic) depression should not use SAMe unless advised by a physician. Best kept refrigerated. See *034 TMG for a low-cost material that raises SAMe levels. 30 tabs, $19.00 Code 035.0

TMG, TriMethylGlycine, aka betaine base, a natural metabolic product of choline, is a methyl donor which lowers levels of plaque-forming homocysteine and raises levels of SAMe, a powerful antidepressant and anti-arthritis substance. In the liver, TMG helps metabolize fat, and increases detoxifying liver enzymes and antioxidant glutathione levels. After giving up a methyl group, it turns into antiaging sports nutrient *533 DMG. In farm animals, TMG is used to decrease fat and increase meat production. Suggested daily dose is 500-1500mg with other anti-homocysteine nutrients: B6, B12, folic acid, & choline. People with depression or liver disease take up to 6 grams a day safely. 150 grams, $6.50. Code 034.0

Found in the catalog section Amino Acids single. BINGO! the answer to your problem of premature ejaculation and depression may be TMG powder.

Why don’t you practice, eating pussy for a while, then get the bird to give a BJ and see how long it takes before you blow your wad into her mouth. You may find that this will help your control problem.