What women think/feel about a loose pussy?

This is my first thread in a while guys so bear with me…

My question is this; do girls with equipment that is “not as tight as the last girlfriend” etc have the similar stance to men whos girlfriends tell them they are small?

I remember somebody, I think RWG, once said about one of the loosest women he ever dated something like his friend told him not to spread it around, because people would just assume he was small!

Is it easier for a woman to hide her (even if it is perceived) “inadequacy”, due to the fact that her genetals are almost entirely internal and therefore very difficult to get an estimate of their true size/strength etc?

Is a woman measured up, like a man is, against previous partners? (I am assuming so) But the difference is that while a girl can do and badmouth a guy saying he was only so and so inches, what can a man say? “She felt very big inside” is very vauge and such.

DO women suffer from issues, like all of us here, about their size? Are there women out there who avoid romantic relationships because they think (or are) just really loose, in the same way several guys here have openly admitted doing the same thing because they thought they were too small to please any woman?

Do size queens just blame the guy for being too small instead of admitting to themselves that they are just big down there are need more to feel something?

And many similar questions which would just occupy too much more space…. Thoughts/ideas/experiences/feelings/opinions? :)

Sound good. I do believe women do. Especially the ones who have been can we say ‘Around’. My current partner is pretty ‘open’ since her previous partner was much bigger then me, reason why I am here. But I am trying to get her to do kegels also so she can tighten up some too. She was the one who suggested to me that she might be to ‘open’ for my size. Only reason why I think she told me this is because she says size doesn’t matter to her. But is worried I will not enjoy her because of her being so ‘open’.

I do not like using the word loose so I choose open instead.

~Milamber

I think that they do feel a little inadequate about it but its easier to palm off blame on the man than it is for us to palm it off on them.

I started PE because my wife was so loose that sex was not much fun. I have been rewarded with great gains, but her pussy still flops around unles she really works at it. I asked her to do kegels last year and she was insulted, but said she would work at it — that lasted maybe 2 weeks. She has concerns about sexual performance because I want it more frequently than she does, and I last longer than she likes. Telling her that her pussy needs to be tighter, too, would just send her over the edge.

I figure I need about 9x6.5 to fill it up. The base is getting close in girth (benefit from hanging), but I have been working on length first for the shaft. When I start hitting the CDS regularly, I’ll switch over to girth work.

And I have decided that PE is dedicated to making sex better for me. If she enjoys it more, that would be a nice bonus. But even jacking off with a bigger cock feels better for me.

Secjay I think women would like a tighter pussy but do not know how to go about doing it. Doctors tell women to kegal after childbirth. I know that my wife has known about kegels but it didn’t seem to help. I told you that I ordered that kegel device for my wife Official Site of the One and Only Original Kegelmaster ~ Kegelmaster Worldwide I get it tomorrow. I personaly can’t wait. Every woman on there forum and Man have said there pussy’s have tightened up like they were virgins again.

Secjay-
The only light I can shine on this subject is a brief conversation with the wife after our second (and last) child. She told me that her friend, who also recently gave birth to her second, was having her puss tightened. This was of particular interest to me because her friends husband boasted to me once that he was “positive” his wife had never been with any guy who was bigger than him. And in the gym shower one day I snuck a peek and have no reason to doubt the guy—- big fat long German sausage! She must’ve been seriously stretched out by that second babies cranium.
To the point: My wife asked me if I thought she now felt too loose downstairs and if so, should she follow her friends lead and get tightened up. Being the stupid ass that I am, I assured her she was fine. Now, it’s no secret that my wife has a very hot fat ass, but I feel comfortable telling my brothers here that she isn’t exactly feeling like virginal material down there. Not floppy and “loose”. But hardly what I imagine her friends pretty little wet puss must feel like these days.
Ultimately, my wife was making a comparison with herself. Before kids and after. Never before had she concerned herself with her twat tension as compared to the other sweet little honey-pots I dipped into before her.
As well, she never openly compared my penis size to the scumbag mutherfuckers she had..yeecchh…sex with before me. Not until I, the stupid ass that I am, pushed her on the subject. But that’s another story.
In the end, my wife concerned herself for a few seconds, heard what she wanted to here from me (saint) and was done with it. Had I complained, I have no doubt she would’ve gotten the stitch, sweetheart that she is.

—-Cap

Great responses guys. Thanks for the mind materials…

Maxwell I am still interested in your experiences with the device, let us all know how that goes.

I guessed, but had little actual personal experience, that a woman could easily blame a guy instead of be critical of herself, mainly for the reason that guys meat and potatoes are in open view for the world to see and compare and measure up, whereas girls can hide it, at least until a guy gets to experience it first hand (or first prick lol!)

The reason I ask these questions is because I am male, have had very little female friend contact, and only ever had the one girlfriend. So I am curious to things like this. Ignorant is such a strong word, but… :D

Sometimes I wish I had had a girlfriend or two before my current girl, simply because I cannot contrast her with anything but my preconceived notions of what a woman is like, or supposed to be like.

For example, she has asked me if she feels too loose. What response can I give her other than to compare her against what I was lead to believe by friends, the media, anatomy text books etc??? These things as well as mucho porn have warped my brain into a mushy slush. Any opinion I can give her will not be based on reality. At best I could simply describe what she feels like to me, but she might not like the description..

For a guy who has put higher forces on his prick than she probably has any other body part, why should she be surprised if I replied something like “compared to my hand, it feels like very little pressure”, which is true, but then again, how can a little girl’s pussy compare to a strong male hand in the first place? Hence my point of no point of reference - no prior comparison material.. :(

But I still like the fact that she was my first. I really wanted to wait for somebody who I loved, I didn’t want to get myself into meaningless fucking, that is the road of whores and sluts and the dark side.

Secjay that was a good post.

My wife is my first Love and I am her’s. She would never admit that she was loose.

Well I told my wife that I bought her something to tighten up her pussy. Let me just say she did not take it well at first.

I made sure I Fucked her first then I said I need to show you something(It was the web site). I’m not sure what happened next, but I said something about her BIG GAPING HOLE & the Shit hit the Fan.

She said how do you know my hole is big and was starting to imply that maybe it was me. I told her that I knew that it was big because statistically the average male’s penis girth is 4 3/4” and I said the thickest part of my penis is 6 3/4”. That is a difference of 2” and I feel like I’m swimming in your pussy. All in All I think it went well. We get to use it tomorrow.

You say it like it’s a bad thing!!

Maxwell, after having read your plan to introcude this pussy exerciser to your wife yesterday I was so puzzled how you would do this (just your description of that “four finger test” was, well… different :D ) But I didn’t expect to find the latest news on your mission already today. What’s my message? …just wanted to let you know that I am following your story with fascination. It’s not because I am in the same boat. Actually, with my wife it’s the other way around. I can count the occasions where I was able to insert three fingers without getting her complains and messing up the whole atmosphere :( . And when she complains I can understand it - it’s really already a bit crowded by then. Lately she even crossed out my secret perspective of child birth. She mentioned she would consider Cesarean method to not mess up her pussy :cuss:

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by L born XXL buried
[B]Maxwell, after having read your plan to introcude this pussy exerciser to your wife yesterday I was so puzzled how you would do this (just your description of that “four finger test” was, well… different :D )

Well L born XXL buried the “four finger test” was, well… different but she had no idea it was a test. It was just my little way of putting things in perpective. So after using this pussy exercise. I will be able to know what kind of changes were made.

I don’t know how long you have been married. But I have been with my wife since we were kids. We are both in our 30’s. So I have seen the changes in size over that time period. I remember when I would finger fuck her with one finger and that pussy would grip it. Boy those were the Days.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by L born XXL buried And when she complains I can understand it - it’s really already a bit crowded by then. Lately she even crossed out my secret perspective of child birth. She mentioned she would consider Cesarean method to not mess up her pussy.

Maybe your secret plans of child birth could still happen. This device helps women after they have babies. To get there pussies back in shape.

Put it this way, I have not even got the device yet. But when I do and after I use it and if that pussy gets any where near as tight as I want it & I WANT IT TIGHT. I will let You Thunder and all my PE BROTHERS KNOW that I struck Gold.

I seen this video less than a month ago of this woman with this device sticking out of her. I was like what the Fuck is that. I thought it was so new sex toy. She had it in her pussy and I could hear it snap shut over and over again. This woman had total pussy control. Then when I did that search for that other thread as a joke. I came across this kegalmaster 2000. I started to read what the women and some of the men were saying about it. I was hooked plus I seen it in action. The rest is history.

Thanks maxwell,

AS said I will follow your reports with a lot of interest. Mainly for the relationship aspect, less for the technical aspect: I am curious how your wife will accept this “thing” sticking in her pussy, trying to snap shut it for the first time. How you talk her into it etc…

As for my wife, we have a relationship since 2 years and we married this August. Nevertheless, we’re also in our early 30s. Hmmm, how I’d like to do this four finger test, but she’d beat me up before I could even insert a fingertip of my second hand into her pussy. :D

maxwell,

My wife has tried using the Kegelmaster and says it pinches her inside, so she hasn’t been willing to use it. For women, there are far more benefits to Kegels than just a tighter pussy.

MDC how many times has your wife used it? She might have it on the wrong settings. I have only had my wife use it once so far. Did your wife get any tighter.

They should be self concious if they have made a guy feel inadequate in the past and have been a bitch to him!