Worried: Not getting fully hard...What can I do?

I realize that there maybe several factors into play here…Most notably the possibility of overtraining to soon as I am just a month into it…But I don’t feel I did…I increased to 20, then 30 minute jelqs after two weeks.

My problem is that I used to get fully erect and really hard, not maneavering the penis that much because it was so erect..

Now, it does not get fully hard, when it does, it’s about 65%, it flops around, and that is not good…

I have taken off for the last few days, have not jelqed since Sunday…Wil be with my girlfriend tomorrow and the rest of the week…This is not good since both of us are looking forward to getting naked, but if I can’t get fully hard, which she loves the most, then we have a problem…

What can I do to get more blood to my penis and get my erection back, besides not jelquing??
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Please help.

JYD

If you’ve been jelqing everyday it is quite possible that you have over done it. Rest is probably the only solution.

Besides you may get naked with your girlfriend an find that you get rock solid. I have experienced your exact issue when I 1st started PE, and was doing it everyday without a break. Rest days and being naked with my girl helped quite a bit. Also, DON’T STRESS ABOUT IT. If you are constantly worried about it, it will make things worse.

Well, I figure their is not much I can do at this point…I read elsewhere that someone got Arginax or something at GNC to promote bloodflow…I really won’t stress about it because I’m not sleeping with other people, and it’s not the only reason my lady and I are seeing one another. Even though it is long distance and we dont’ see eachother often for now, it would be nice to have a full erection…

Thanks for chiming in…My jelq schedule was two, sometimes three days on, then one, sometimes two off…it varied over the holidays.

Any other advice on what I can do besides not stress…Thanks again seanjacobs.

Have your girlfriend perform oral on you and see if that helps. It always helps me. LOL

J,

Sean is right on, you overstressed buddy. Don’t be in such a hurry next time, huh? You will grow, it doesn’t have to be in a day.

Now, I have personally found that Arginmax will indeed help out. When I have taken the recommended six pills a day for just two days in a row, my penis feels like it will burst from all the blood. Even the first three pills gets me like a rock. In your position, with your girl on the way, I would surely hike over to the GNC this morning and buy a small bottle. Take the recommended dosage, and you will be ready for action.

Well, I thought moving from tghe 15 to 20, then 30 minute jelq was a little premature as well, however, some forumites suggested that it was OK.

Since I am a little over a month into it, when I pick it back up next week, how should I slowly get back into it?

ALSO, this Arginmax you speak of…What are the side affects, if any, and will it help me recover faster, or simply temporarily rid of my problem…Since talking to you guys, I have really calmed down, so thanks for clearing me of the stress factor, but I’d still like to be able to reach full potential if possible.

I appreciate your support

Take plenty of vitamins and a sex booster with l-arginine wouldn’t hurt. Also drink plenty of water. (Hope this helps)

What’s a sex booster?

J,

The Arginmax has one serious side effect for me. It doubles my load size. Yep, great big gooey white gobs. Have not noticed anything else, but I have never gone over their recommended dose - so I suggest you don’t either.

I would think that you should drop back to the last level that didn’t negatively effect Mr. Happy. What was that, 20 minutes? J, I try to keep with anything new for about 3 months before I go on to more intensity. If I keep moving up faster, how will I really know if what I was doing before was effective? If I find a level that works, I stick with it until it stops working. Then I move up the time, or change the exercise. I really believe that slow and steady wins the PE marathon.

Benbe,

How did I miss that one? Thanks for backing me up buddy. Here I am, Thunder’s water boy, and it had to come from someone else. I should be fired. Yes J, drink lots of water. Duh.

Pirate goes off to beat his head on the wall…

Pirate…that is the best advice. I agree…I think I listened to some that had success moving faster, and it did not work for me in this case, but glad it did for them…Thanks again.

I drink TONS of H20 because I excercise and work out 5 days a week. I’m drinking as we speak.

No problem Pirate. I’m always willing to lend a hand.Lol! not literally ,… but you know what I mean!Lol!

How about vitamins Jyd or physical work outs?

I usually take a multi vitamin, lately been taking eccineachia, also 1000 mg’s of C a day, but I cycle these, but due to just getting over a sickness, been taking most of them daily…