Zaneblue - Bless You

Hi all and Zane in particular.

To make a long story short, this past Saturday I was with the girl of my dreams, someone I dated briefly while she was separated. She returned to her husband 3 yrs ago. Early this year after years of no contact I discovered she was divorced. Not only that but heard that she had been in love w/me the whole time, but tried to hold the family together for noble reasons.

Back to Saturday night, we went on a nice date, went back to her place and eventually to bed. Getting hard was not a problem by staying hard was. She had one orgasm, but I was dissapointed, because I’d alway given her multiples. 45 minutes later I could not come. Dittos the next morning. I was extremely depressed, thinking PE had caused insensitivity, and perhaps fatigue, but I started recalling a pattern of delayed ejaculations, particularly during intercourse going back to a few years (even the last time she and I were together).

Today I saw your links in the de-sensitized penis thread and to the TMS site in particular. The face down into a pillow/sock method is exactly what I’d been doing for about 4-5 years!

So with greatly renewed hope of recovering, I say bless you!

fe olds

p.s. - do you think a Fleshlight would help? and if so which model?

Thanks again!!!!!!

My goodness, I almost didn’t see this thread! Why thank you.

The TMS people say that the hand is best. I’d say get to the point where you can easily use your hand, and once there if you want to become more sensitive then use the Fleshlight. The regular insert is the least stimulating but if you are a TMS guy you might want to try the Wonder Wave first.