Originally Posted by Photon
You are a women and have a penis?
:rolling: Yep, that is much more likely than that he is a guy that likes guys.
Originally Posted by qwertypoiuyt
Yuck
:smack:
Time to shop for some other forums to hang out in? I certainly do hope not. But understand that pushing your above expressed “Yuck” is a bit of a deal breaker around these parts.
Seriously, I can see where the visual of two guys measuring each other might lead you to the visual of two guys getting busy. And I can see where the visual of two guys getting busy might be something that you don’t like. I know plenty of gay guys that find the visual of a guy munching carpet to be rather disturbing. :shrug:
I find two guys going at it to be rather neutral. It doesn’t bother me; but, it does nothing for me either. What bothers me more than a little is chubby people sex. No offense to chubby guys or guys of any ilk that like chubby chicks. Hey, chubby people need love too. It just seriously weirds me out. But I understand that this is my problem, not theirs.
Qwerty, a good portion of this is simply that you are new and the guys don’t know you. It comes across as a condemnation and a judgment of gay guys across the board. I would say that is probably the case as to how you view things. And that is fine. But it isn’t fine to share those views in this forum. Word to the wise.
As an old timer everyone knows me well enough to understand that I am exceptionally non-judgmental. Even so, I wouldn’t say what you did without some qualifiers and explanations thrown in. “Hey, I have no problems with gay guys at all. But you caught me off guard with the whole measuring your buddies wang! Now I can’t get the picture out of my head. Yuck! And yes, I know you are all going to say that I have some deep seated issues and attractions going on… Oh never mind. :rolleyes: “