A story and some questions
So, I’m in bed on top enjoying the sweetness of the feminine form when my wife says “ I love your balls slapping against me”. Well its music to my ears to hear her say this but it’s not my balls she’s feeling. Mine are as tight as those little rubber bands you get on broccoli, no slapping possible. Now your thinking, “so whose balls are they”, the answer is, it’s the neoprene. What!, neoprene, this couple must be into some kinky stuff.
No, not really, let me back up and explain. During jelqing I kept getting pubic hair in the way so I thought, “hey, let’s shave”. Well it was great for a day or two and then I just couldn’t get it smooth enough so she didn’t get prickled during sex, which really sucked. I did searches on this site for every possible solution but none of them worked out, not to mention I was getting pretty raw. So I decided to let it grow back. Well you can imagine the prickles only got worse. It got to the point where she hardly wanted sex and I really didn’t want to do it if she wasn’t enjoying it. In an attempt to find a solution I cut a hole in a pair of underwear to cover the stubble but she said it came through the fabric so I doubled it up but it still didn’t work completely. She was getting cranky and I frustrated, about to give up on sex for awhile, actually oral was getting lots of action but we both wanted to finish off with some good penetration.
Then one day I’m thinking “ there must be a workable solution” ,when it comes to me, some 1/8” neoprene I have for outfitting my kayak. So I make this little neoprene loin cloth with a smart hole in the center for Mr. Wanker, and low and behold we are back in business, no more prickles. There’s the explanation for the slapping neoprene.
This of course gets me interested in stretching the old jewel sac so we can have some genuine ball slapping, which brings me to a few questions after checking out the ball stretching posts.
Does anyone know why they hang nice and low when you wake up in the morning? If they would hang like that all the time I wouldn’t need to consider stretching. Isn’t the point of the sac to control the sperm temperature by contracting and loosening? Is it a good idea to be messing with that function? Even if you stretch it, won’t it just work harder to shrink up anyway?. I don’t quite get it since I am always a furnace (very high metabolism), you would think my balls would be trying to get away from me, not sucked up as tight as possible. Why do some guys hang like a swing set at the park?
I would appreciate some medical understanding about loose vs. tight ball and why, as well as any other perspectives on the subject. For me the whole point of PE is about the pleasure I give and share with my partner (well I suppose a little ego is in there too), and if slapping balls helps, I’m soon to be a ball stretching fool.
I love this forum. I could never say this stuff anywhere else! What a supportive place.