Originally Posted by euthymius8
Hi.This is my first time here, and I usually don’t write anything or something about me or for help.. But I found this site and I really think I can learn something and be open with you guys. First I’m going to tell you a little about me and then I wish, that you could help me. I will appreciate any advice or critique.
I’m 20 years old, latin boy. Fit and my height is 5’7”.. I found this site cause I was so desperate and a little depressed and I’m not going to lie, I was a little obsessed with this problem. I have being doing research about PE around a year now. Everything begun when my girlfriend took my virginity like 2 years ago. We were together for two years and we had a beautiful relationship, but with time we had a lot of problems and we broke up. We still into each other, but it hurts a lot to know that your ex is having sex with other guys and you know.. They are good looking guys, and she’s very hot and all that. She has big breasts and big butt, and you know I want her to have pleasure with me, and most of the time she get it, cause she had orgasm and she came several times, but the reality is that we can’t do some positions cause my penis is small. She is a very sexual person and she got sex with some guys that may I think they have an average penis or big, and that makes me feel like shit.. I don’t want to get back to her and all that thing, but I want to prove myself that I can be capable of have a awesome sex.
My little trauma begun when we broke up like around 6 months ago. She was my first, and I had been only one time with another girl, sexually. My frustration is my penis. My penis it’s small. For me it’s very small, and I know that cause when we had sex I only did a few positions only, but I can’t do even “doggy style” cause she has a big butt and me a small penis. My penis measurements are FL:4.2” (4.250); FG:4” (4.000); EL:5.6” (5.750); EG:5.4” (5.500). I want to be realistic and I know that I have small penis, but I want to make it more bigger to give more pleasure to a women whenever I want. My goal is FL:6.4”; FG:5.4”; EL:7.0”; EG:6.4”.. I want to feel confident about myself. This is making me insecure, a lot. I can’t be with anyone.. But I’m positive, I putting all my hopes in this and on your good advices. I all ears or eyes for you.
Plus: I’m starting to drink multivitamins and vitamin E, and today I’m going to start the newbie routine.
Any advice, comment or whatever that could help, for my PE?
PD: Se habla español.
I’ll join the chorus here so that both the OP & lurkers can appreciate the difference between “small” and “average.” Given your current dimensions, you possess a nice penis, with good volume. It is NOT small.
As a matter of fact, I think I’m going to smash my head into my screen the next time I read someone average or above-average say with certainty that they are small. It’s just this absolute conviction that they are tiny that drives me nuts…drawing these conclusions with nothing more than pornographic comparisons in their minds. This is no offense to the original poster, just venting some reader-rage.
At your girth, you MIGHT even be able to slip into a Magnum condom… would you consider yourself small then?? I bet your lack of confidence is rooted much deeper than your imagined lack-of-size. While I wish you the best in your PE endeavors, I hope this new knowledge will allow you to reassess your thoughts on all of this.
I know this post was probably not translation-friendly, but it was intended to address lurkers at large as well. Dysmorphia runs rampant.
Good luck.
