>KY jelly I assume that is available in Boots.
Yes. I’m guessing you are straight or you’d know this already :)
You could always order it over the net if you have an embarrassment problem. Or steal it from a hospital :)
You could try alternatives first: vaseline, olive oil, baby oil. Udder balm is supposed to be very good (do you live near a dairy farm?).
>You mean pull it back with my other hand? But then how do I switch from one hand to another?
Do you have a foreskin? If so jelqing maybe needs a bit more practise.
Get to the top of the stroke with one hand. Place the second hand with a very light grip a little up the shaft, release the grip slightly of the hand near the top and pull the hand near the base back and apply the new grip fully. Takes effort and a bit of practise.
>Turkey neck what is that?
Turkey neck is where the skin at the base stretches most (the scrotum is underneath so there is less resistance to stretching) so the hairy area rises up the shaft with growth and the scrotum also rises up the shaft.
> Is it permanent or does it go away?
Pretty permanent and only partially avoidable I’d say. Do a search and you’ll get a lot of information. Often happens when starting PE.