Bathmate cause venous leak

If I don’t relax my pelvic floor, could that cause it? Because I think I’m not relaxing it properly due to anxiety.
Are there any practices I can do.

I think my head is chaos because I think about how my erections were before, and what I have done may have damaged it, I have panic thoughts about that and it effects all my other emotions. My head is not clear. I’m considering seeing a therapist.

Okay until I get back I want you to use the search function an search for a thread by poople. This is not to pick on the young man but it will give you a great insight into what the mental aspect of injuries can do and how some can make things worse.

In all my years dealing with PE 95% of injuries are minor with a very large mental component. Trust me the bathmate did not cause permanent damage to your penis.

Ok I’ll check it

Ok good to hear, based on your experience I hope you are on.

In all my years reading forums like these there were maybe 2 or 3 serous injuries that I can remember and each one ended up at the hospital within hours after the incident. Extreme pain, edematous, hematoma, blood in urine; you know those kinds of things. Oh I jelqed for 3 minutes and a felt a this or a that and I’ve never been the same again. That I don’t buy. I know too much about the body to believe any of it.

What I do know is that we guys get mentally messed up about it and that is the real injury. We are afraid to go out, meet a girl, have sex, be with our friends; now does that seem like a normal response to an injury? Do people with broken legs do that? Not that I know of. Only a penis can give a guy a whole set of mental anguish and the odds of them permanently hurting themselves is about the same as me becoming a ballerina. Not happening! But you will get a guy or two on here who will tell you’re screwed and you will never heal and it’s pe’s fault or in this case the bathmate. You see they’re mentally shot and misery loves company don’t it?

So too much force and too long a time. Okay so you broke some blood vessels;they’ll heal. That’s what the body does.Oh you might notice some blood vessels in different areas than you had before. That’s the way the body healed. It will develop collateral circulation in order to heal the injury. If the body sees use for the new circulation it keeps it; no sense wasting energy to tear something down that the body can use.
Okay so you stretched some skin; well what did you expect? Sometimes the skin will come back to the way it was; sometimes not. It all depends on how much of the skins elasticity was damaged but hey that won’t stop you from getting laid.

Had you damaged the deeper structures you would have had lots of pain, swelling; you would have ended up in the hospital. No you slowly damaged things with time and now the body needs time to heal. Give it to the body. It will physically heal.

Now for the mental. If you want to believe that you have collapsing veins, you damaged all the valves in the veins, you must remain in bed,develop odd lumps in different areas of your body well then it’s over for you.Nobody but a therapist can help you at that point and even then they may not be able to help. Want to stay in the house, avoid all contact with girls; that’s not a physical problem. That’s a mental emotional one. You think that’s healthy?

Might you have this mental block in your head the next time you try to get laid? Sure you might and it might affect your performance. So what do you do? Give up or try again knowing you are physically fine but you have to get your confidence back? You tell me how you want to live your life.

My opinion, although maybe I should have started a thread about it.

Some, NOT ALL, of the reported injuries, are mainly, mental issues.

How does this happen? Well , IMO, it depends on the person and how his brain is wired. When starting PE, you start touching your penis, for other than sexual reasons.

So, it is possible for the brain to get confused at first. It is known as lost sensitivity. or in other case hypersensitivity or EQ issues, etc.

Think about this, most exercises need a plump penis.Which means you must force the brain, NOT to cause a full erection, so you can perform the exrecises correct, when you touch yourself. But the brain is wired to always deliver to an overall healthy man, a full erection, when touching himself for any other reson than peeing.

So, the brain gets confused. But…. the human brain has the ability to adapt in time. So…it just needs time.

Taking the above into consideration, as a man and a PEer, I wouldn’ t be surprised if I had some hard time getting a full erection by myself, for masturbation. I am refering to the self touching.

I want you to know that I rarely masturbate and when I did masturbate in the begining I rarely got 100% erections after starting PE.

BUT… follow me on this, I get rock hard erections when I am having sex with my wife. No problem what so ever. Do you know why?

Cause the brain recognises a different situation than self touching and delivers a full erection. And since I have a conditioned form PE penis the EQ is top quality.

Now, you can have EQ issues during sex. But this is only because of stress that your penis doesn’t work properly anymore when YOU touch it.

You see my point? Do not get generally stressed because your brain has a hard time to decide what to do when you are ALONE with your penis.

You will mess your head and that will fuck you pretty bad. In time the brain will adapt to the new situation and will have the ability to distinct masturbation time, so I deliver a hard erection and PE time, so I deliver less.

That’s my opinion. I am no doc, but I strongly believe these are accurate.

The 2 previous posts are spot on.

So I pumped really hard with the bathmate and twice lost about a half inch of erect length each time. I freaked out. I mean here I am trying to make gains and I get a hematoma from a *safe* product. After the initial 2 problems it took me a week to really calm down. From what I gather 2 hematomas developed and I am at this point taking it easy trying other forms of PE but in a very minute fashion like hanging half pounds for 10 minutes. It freaked me out. I am a pretty big guy, but a girl really upset me and since she liked the penis to get over her I decided to make it much bigger over time. So it really messed me up. Still recovering have not measured since but I will. The pain is almost gone. Slight discoloration. Still upset but not freaking out. Hope all worked out with you. Totally understand.

After the initial catastrophe I am going to be way more careful, be glad to get a wake up call before you do something really dumb. Once my dingus is back to normal gonna do other stuff and probably go back to the bathmate in a year or so. Think mostly high pain tolerance and bullheadedness to blame, but I have heard this story a few times and bathmate should explain this sort of thing, and put a caution sticker on the pump. They still haven’t emailed me back.

I have a bathmate and iv noticed dark spots on my penis.

I would never put a pump on without it having a vacuum gauge.

I’m yet to see someone on PE forums ever claim that PE could be the issue or cause of these problems. In your place I’d sue the bathmate company OP.

How much do you watch porn and masturbate?

Sounds a bit like porn induced ed. I might be wrong. But maybe I’m not. Stop watching porn and jerking off for a while, see what happens.

Good luck

If it would be porn induced, why did it happen to him after he started PE and not before? Surely he watched porn before.

They should kick you off the forum. All your comments are derogatory and do not add anything. People come saying that they want to commit suicide because they don’t have normal erections and you make those comments? Everything is always psychological, right? I have never seen anyone worse than you.