Beating TMS

I thought I’d start a log of how I intend to beat TMS. I’m 6 inches EL Cut btw.

I masturbate face-down because I figured it out young (about 8/9 years of age) and imitated sex scenes on TV. I usually masturbate about 5 times per week the normal way however I TMS masturbate about 10/12 times a week in bed usually at night or early morning and pinch the top of my head to stop ejaculation.

This will result in too much pressure on my penis, problems during intercourse etc - I’ve read the healthy strokes site! In addition, it appears as though my ejaculations aren’t that powerful since my body is almost used to holding it in.

From this day forward I intend to stop masturbating face-down however this may mean more normal masturbation (maybe 15 times per week). I am 19 but I feel I have an unusually high sex drive even for my age. My basic question is - do I just try through will power to stop my TMS and just masturbate more often?

The other thing is from the PE side of things - it surely wouldn’t help much. I intend to start PE again in the summer - I’ll keep you guys posted!

I hope that other TMS sufferers can look at this thread for advice and help to beat the condition.

Thanks!

wut is tms

What is “wut” Xerp? Where are the caps and punctuation?

Traumatic Masturbation Syndrome is a faux disease. It is not recognized by the medical community and seems to be propagated by one or two web sites including the one you mentioned: HealthyStrokes.com. The problem, in my opinion, is too frequent masturbation, regardless of the position in which it’s done. (Your statement that the number of times you masturbate will increase after stopping prone masturbation seems to support this.)

See:

This is a summary of the origin of the term and links to relevant texts.

In your opinion is it harmful? I know that my orgasms aren’t strong when I masturbate face-down that’s for sure.

I don’t think masturbation is harmful, no matter what position you do it in. I think masturbating three times a day or more will affect your performance when it comes to intercourse.

Orgasms have many components: physical stimulation, mental, chemical. If you aren’t stimulating it the same way or your mind is not “on target” or you’ve messed up your chemicals with drugs or alcohol, then an orgasm may not be the same as when those other things are under control.

I see - thanks for your help! I’ll keep everyone posted.

Would like to do a quick update.

So far so good - I have not humped the bed or masturbated face-down since I’ve made this thread. I’ve also noticed better errections and much more satisfying wanks (due to the fall in total numbers).

It really is simply a case of will power.

Cheers

Hi there mate I used to masturbate on my front too, I thought I was the only one seriously.

I had to stop because it started to make my penis go to the side when I had an erection.

It was hard to stop because like you I too have a massive sex drive but I did it and it’s not quite as bad as it was.

If you need to ask me any questions pm me I’ll be glad to help.

Jab79

I haven’t wanked by ‘humping’ the bed once in all this time. Although I do sometimes still lye on my front with an errection. It is considerably better to masturbate properly.

I used to push down on the base of the cock when I was really young (less than 8) and it would give me a sort of “orgasm”. I tried it not that long ago remembering it for some reason and it still works, I ejaculate at the same time now though.

I thought I was one of the only ones. The first time I came at around 12 was due to ‘humping’ - that’s why people starting to masturbate at 14 onwards is just odd to me. I don’t see how you wouldn’t have figured it out!

Btw - goingfor8at - you’ve got some impressive size there. Congrats.

15 times per week, 15 times per week!

My god, kids now are such light weights! Why back in the day most of us were flogging the Bishop 15 time a day.

Oh for shit’s sake, now it’s called “Traumatic Masturbation Syndrome” ???

If you’re masturbation is traumatic, perhaps you’re not masturbating.

Or, if your idea of masturbating involves banging your dick with the toilet seat or sticking it in a blender or using it to open beer bottles, well ok, I guess that would qualify as “Traumatic Masturbation Syndrome” — provided it ends with ejaculation.

But if it’s just the knuckle-shuffle, please.