Become flaccid while jelqing

Right before a jelqing session I make my penis 100% erect, since It eventually goes down. But the problem here is that it goes pretty down. At this point, my penis is very red, heavy, and hanging longer than normal. Most of the time I kegel blood into the penis and then jelq. Then I repeat. Is this normal? Or should my penis be actually hard the whole time while I jelq. Not necessarily 100% erect, but should it be at a point when you’re jelqing and your penis is actually hard? Any tips and words of wisdom would be helpful.

When you push the blood through, it will be harder. But it shouldn’t be erect when you start. Plump is better, kind of semi-rigid. You want to feel the swelling going on - if you are erect you won’t feel the shaft “swell” and then you should let it soften a little.

So starting my jelq at 60% doing a set of 25. It dies down to 30% then again starting at 60% on my next set. This should still work.

Even 30% will work, but I think if you are getting enough blood into the shaft and keeping it there properly that you won’t subside so much. I used to only Jelq while watching porn so that I could keep a stiff erection, but now I start Jelqing at almost flaccid, and the jelqing itself will increase the size adequately as I continue.

I do the same thing you do. I get my self 100% erect, wait till about 85% or 90%, then start jelqing slowly so the erection won’t go down all the way.

Welcome stebalo. Start at 60% or thereabout and just jelq. Whenever it drops to low stroke it back up to another 60% and continue.

I’ll try your guy’s tips, thanks =]. But when I jelq, I do feel so tension and a little bit of pain. And it does get hard. But if I let go of my penis, it just hangs more loosely than usually, and is not as stiff as I started with.

There should be no pain when jelqing.