Beginning PE and the Psychological Issues of Being Half Asian

Let me start off by saying I am so glad I found this site. You see so much garbage out on the web but never really know if anything works or is worth your time. After lurking on here a couple of days it seems everyone here is knowledgeable, having success, willing to help and I’ve learned a lot just by checking out the newbie guides and stats pages.

A little about me and why I wanted to pursue PE.. I’m half Korean and have always had to deal with the whole “Asian Small Penis” stigma my entire life. It didn’t help that I’m a grower instead of a shower. Between that and the hearsay of what average is or isn’t and watching porn I’ve always just had a confidence issue about the size of my cock.

All my girlfriends have always been quick to say they thought it was bigger but I always just thought in my head that they were being nice. It wasn’t until I got here that I figured out that I’m actually starting out with some great numbers and don’t have a “small Asian cock” after all. After reading everyone’s stories and checking out the stats and how to measure, I decided to grab the tape and ruler for the first time in my life. I was always afraid of what I’d find out.

Much to my surprise, when I did the “PE Approved” measurements I was A LOT bigger than I thought. Here are my measurements for Oct 29th:

BPEL - 7 3/8”
EG - 5 3/8”
FL - 3.5”
FG - 4 1/8”

I was absolutely shocked and felt stupid for feeling insecure all those years. Sometimes it was so bad I couldn’t even get it up the first time I was with a girl without going into the bathroom to psyche myself up. Stupid I know.

I think the final part of the problem, and one that seems can definitely be corrected by PE, is the length that I hang when flaccid. That’s the biggest thing I’ll be working towards.

I started with a newbie routine on Monday and will continue to post my results here as I make progress.

I grabbed a shot of y girth measurement with my cell phone but I’m not sure if that’s allowed in this forum or not. I couldn’t figure out how to get the BPEL measurement and the camera to all play nice at the same time though. Lol

It is wonderful to discover you have a big dick!

Welcome to TP! Welcome to the big boys club!

We are all our own greatest adversaries and detractors, after all. Admitting that is a great first step in being comfortable with who you are.

Nice starting stats. I’m 6’1”, 0% Asian and only 5.75 inches in BPEL, so you’re considerably bigger. If that can help you eliminate the silly stigma at my expense then more power to you :) . Welcome and best of luck.

Great first post, man. I’m also very much a “grower” and it used to cause me a lot of insecurity. But over the years I’ve kind of come to accept and even enjoy it. It’s nice to be able to spring that kind of surprise, and it makes the erect size all the more impressive, I think.

Anyway, welcome to TP, and good luck in reaching all of your goals!

Man, I am Korean and wish I started with YOUR stats !! Hell, I probably wouldn’t of even had the insecurity issues if I started with your size. You are big already. Look where I started out in my signature.

Glad to have you here, my fellow Korean brother :P

I am 100% Asian, and I had 7.75”X5.75” when I started P.E at Thunder’s.

I know a lot of Korean guys. Some of them are proud of their “small Asian penises.” I find that the Asian perspective on penis size and sex in general is much different from that of Whites and also Blacks.

I’m sorry that you feel that having a “small Asian penis” is a problem. Maybe that means that you identify more with the White side of your family and have internalized their values about sexuality.

Whatever. It’s good that you’ve discovered that it’s not a problem after all, even by the standards of American Whites.

One thing I see in a lot of Korean bodies is a very large fat pad. I guess it’s important for surviving those cold Korean winters. At any rate, if you have a large fat pad, that could explain why you’ve generally seen yourself as small.

Welcome aboard, kwon.

If your problem is just FL you should see changes after just some week of PE work. Jelqs are the best for FL I think.

Don’t overwork, check your PI (search), and good gains.

Flaccid gains are much easier to get than erect ones. Also, the small Asian penis is somewhat a rumor, the differences between blacks whites and Asians aren’t as drastic as people make it seem.

On a another note of nationality, my mother is from Belarus and my father is from Russia, and I have a pretty small penis (why I am here, 6 BPEL, 6 EG) but I noticed something the other day though.. I have gargantuan testicles. Like enormous, they go down about 3/4 of my thigh. I also have full control over them and can move them side to side. Also if it gets cold they move up to my body extremely quickly, so close in fact that I can feel them pressed against the bone.

I was joking around with a couple of my friends the other day and we started talking about nuts because of the south park episode where kyle has to suck Eric’s nuts, and they were both Russian. We all have the same thing, over sized testicles that shrink quickly however they only have partial control, up and down while I have side to side as well.

The stuff you learn.

You must have grown up on a horse farm.

Yeah over the past year I’ve kind of started to get over it as joking about it was the only way to instantly shut people up when talking about penis size and being Korean. Coming here was kind of like the final step in freeing myself from my own perceptions.

As for the fat pad, mine is about an inch right now. When I start to carry more fat that always seems to be the place it goes first. I’m about 17% body fat right now and just started a workout and nutrition plan to get myself down to around 10% over the next 12 weeks. That should also help there. I’ not doing it solely for penis size.. My new band is starting to take off and I need to get into stage/camera shape.

As for which side of the family I identify with, being half kind of sticks you in between both cultures without truly belonging to either. White people view you as not white (they usually have no clue what I am) and Koreans NEVER think I’m part Korean. And I DEFINITELY never talk about sex with my mom. She’s just not like that. I also grew up in a town where there weren’t many Asians so I basically always hung out with white people.

LOL. I live in almost an all-Russian neighborhood in LA but I don’t think I’ll be asking anyone about their balls. By 3/4 down your thigh, did you mean 1/4 down from the top or 1/4 up from the knee?

Wow.. 2” length and 1” girth in one year? From the looks of everyone’s posts here those gains are pretty insane. Seems like a lot of people also drop off before spending that much time with it.

Well I’m in it for the long haul. I’ve gotten a half hour in every day this week and will probably measure about once every two weeks.

Yeah, I pretty much went hardcore with my PE and spent a few hours each day doing them. Jelqing took a lot of the time.