Originally Posted by GiulioRestino
The problem is that after years I created friends, but their mentality is toxic to me.. They re super christians and all getting married soon, and they appear to me so judgy..I m doing my own things fortunately, but still they re the only real friends I have, and ignoring them leaves me with no one to hang out with and live the social life I want
You gotta make new friends!!!! Friends you made while you where weakened are worthless because they see you in the diminished light and low worth your ex left you in. The exception is any of them who thought you were exceptional. Which is unlikely because many Christians are extremely judgemental of others. Thats another thing your ego and self esteem cannot afford. Judgemental and negative people are to be avoided like cancer.
I’d start in a gym environment such as cross fit. GROW and excel in that environment and they will see and reflect the stronger you.
And you need sexual relations with a lady who sees you as a great and sexy dude.
Oh. Do not talk about your old problems in these environments. Stay busy enough on new goals that the thoughts dont reappear. About three months of strong sexual relations and your past won’t effect you anymore.
You see why i say “we don’t heal in a vacuum”. Those strong sexual relations need to happen for your healing. No drugs or fooling yourself will fix it.