Confirmation?

I’ve been PEing for 5.5 years. I’ve gained a total of .75”bpel, .5”meg, & almost 1”beg.

Lately I’ve been noticing my wife making different grunts, groans and moaning sounds during intercourse. She really seems to enjoy it.

Saturday night fun time came, at about 4am. We just stayed up all night talking and drinking/having fun. So we did it and due to being mighty fkn tired, pretty buzzed I didn’t orgasm. Thankfully, EQ was great. I got a good workout in earlier in the day, so I may have been 7.5” bpel, 5.25” meg, 5.5”beg. Once again she’s making all these new sounds and after at least a half hour, we realized I wasn’t gonna get there.She did multiple times.

I know that bothers her, but I said don’t worry about it. I’ll get mine tomorrow.

Sunday afternoon she tells me her insides hurt. I said, stomach/bowels. (She normally has issues there). She said no, it feels like my uteran walls are bruised.

She has never verbally said anything about my bigger size.

My question is, is that confirmation she notices?

Definitely sounds like it.

Yes. Yes it is.

Another method of confirmation is to ask her if she’s ready to go again. Any negative/need a break comment just confirms cause and effect.

Thanks Schlong & 32. It is very good to know that she doesn’t actually tell me it’s bigger. But she obviously feels the difference.

I even offered to give her more at about 5am, I was still ready for more. She declined.

I will take it as confirmation she feels the difference, as you guys expressed.

I’m of the impression if you’re in the uterus, you’re pretty deep. Is that true?

That’s exactly what happened.
Thanks!

Wow! Way to go. Those sounds sure are music to man’s ears.

That’s for sure!

I finally found this thread you were talking about.

That’s an interesting statement from her, I think the next time it happens ask her about more details. I can’t pinpoint what she is talking about. Mine has just said, "you are so thick" and of course, the moans and OMG porn face are different going balls deep these last 4 months.

About Orgasms, I’m sure you know about the Multi Orgasmic man book, so I won’t go into too much. But for anyone reading, it is completely fine not to cum. This is how some weeks are for me as an over 40 guy

Sex week 1: 4 orgasms and ejaculation (EQ goes from 100%-75%) (by the last session I’m beaten up with that many ejaculations)
Sex week 2: 3 orgasms and ejaculation and 1 no orgasm (EQ goes from 100%-85%)
Sex week 3: 1 orgasm and ejaculation, 3 Multi orgasms (orgasm and no ejaculation, or very little cum comes out) (EQ goes from 100%-92%, I love the longer feel of orgasm with Multi)

Basically with more multi orgasms, I have stronger EQ for the other sessions.

Every week is different, every man and session is different and it is all good! I am so confident now that I can not cum a few times a month and be completely fine with just fucking. Wifey now knows that when I don’t cum, it’s not her or me, just lots of fun. Ejaculating does not confirm enjoyment for us anymore. So when wifey found out I was doing some Multi Orgasms a week , she stopped being concerned if I was not cumming. She is just making sure it is not her that is the problem, and I explain that this is just age and we must learn to adapt. Some men think if they have low EQ but still cum 4 times a week there is something wrong with them, find a system that works for you!

Sorry if I went on a rant, but a very important conversation to have with our partners and for those lurkers reading this.

I have read many threads here about the Multiple Orgasmic Man book. I will say, as I get older (I’ll be 55 next month) this not orgasming issue does seem to be happening more frequently. I would guesstimate 30-40% of the time. It doesn’t bother me at all, but my wife has said in the past that it bothers her. (She has self confidence issues).

She is just making it through menopause. So, unfortunately over the last year or so some months “fun times” are only happening 1-2 times a month. That is slowly improving here recently, thank god. I’ve found if I abstain from ejaculation 2-3 weeks, sometimes I can’t hold it back much longer than 5-8 minutes I’m assuming due to being backed up. I’m sure like most men, the more you “get it”, the longer you can go.

One thing I forgot to mention about the other night. I did come close to orgasm 1-2 times.

As far as becoming multi-orgasmic. I think it would be great. Hopefully, when life slows down. (I’ve had a very busy year) I can read the book, and re-read some threads on the subject. Pretty sure edging is a big part of it. I edge pretty much off and on throughout my whole PE workouts. I do want to get back doing cardio work asap. I haven’t really done any for about a year and I can tell. I know being in good shape is a big part of being able to last in the bedroom. Hopefully soon I can get into a routine. I would think both of those activities are a big part of being multi-orgasmic.

Thanks, for all feedback!

Hey LFG- I may be wrong, please correct me if I am, but I think you may be describing delayed ejaculation (DE), where you go and go and go and just never get to an orgasm, and either fake it or tap out. My understanding is that DE is different than an orgasm with non ejaculation (dry orgasm).

I occasionally have DE and more rarely have had a dry orgasm by accident. A dry orgasm greatly reduces or eliminates the refractory period, thus allowing us to keep going and have more orgasms (multi orgasmic).

Thoughts?

I would say you’re correct 32. I never remember having a dry orgasm. I would like to experience it, Sounds like a good time.