Originally Posted by ClassicAlways
The way I do edging is that I use olive oil and milk my head with strokes the whole head and close my eyes and imagine a nice girl that I know , they are diffrent all the time .
๐คฃ๐๐คฃ๐๐คฃ๐๐๐ love it especially the closing of eyes- hmmmm sweet beauty๐
I have a very similar experience to you but yesterday I had penetrative sex for over an our. Plus, by birth I can come in five minutes if I want to.
So the key is your pelvic floor mechanics. Edging might provide you with some neurological adaptation to prolonged stimulation but im not convinced that it will make you last longer. Many of us here can hold an erection for a long time because it’s a requirement for most of the stuff we do.
I find that if I contract my pelvic floor muscles from behind and underneath my balls, I’ll lose my load.. but if I clamp my urethra only and pull in, the ejaculatory force causes the Muscles underneath and behind my balls to pulsate as
The ejaculatory contractions finds no where to go as I’m clamping my urethra. As the tremors subsides, I clamp my muscles underneath and behind my balls and kill off the urge to offload
As ypu get stronger you will find that you can reduce your load to half a teaspoon. To do this you must push yourself to the edge enough for you to still have control (don’t gallop to the edge) then clamp you dick hard and don’t allow your brain to experience the euphoria(if you do you will fail) but allow your load to offload a little. [Leant to notice that the euphoria and ejaculation is not synchronised. Paying attention will prove this . Clamping will show they can be “seperated” to some extent.] After the 1/2 a teaspoon offloaf, your erection, depending on your eq training, will remain at 80% to 100%. But you sensitivity will fall to 80% and remain there for a while. At this level, you can pound, gallop and subdue.
To condition my muscles I basically do kegels with weights attached to my shaft. You should train the pelvic muscles that helped you most in your last sexual encounter: Think isolation and never compound.
That’s the short story.
This training is uniquely suited for folks like us because some natural “long distance runners” lose all sensitivity after the half teaspoon offload or offload too much due to insufficient conditioning . If you offload any more than required and you are not supper fit and youthful, it may not work.
Cheers