Depression and penis length

I only started PE a few weeks ago and I quickly noticed length gains.. But since I lost my girlfriend I’ve been really sad, almost depressed, I have trouble sleeping, I don’t eat and I only think about her.. And maybe it’s just my imagination but I noticed that when I go to the shower my penis is all shriveled up again before I started PE.. This only makes things harder for me. Does anybody have any info about this subject.. Anything would help.

Thanks in advance
- K

Welcome to the forum.

Realise there is a world population of more than 3 billion girls out there, don’t think about your ex as the only woman alive, there are plenty, just relax and have fun with it.

yeah, kick the bitch into touch!

So does this mean that depression affects penis length or not? Thanks for the .. Support .. Anyway :)

Warning: amateur diagnosis follows… I’d say you’re in mild shock, both emotionally and physically. The physical side of that will cause your body to go into ‘survival’ mode, keeping the core warm and alive. *All* extremities are considered expendable (by your grieving psyche) and won’t be at the head of the list for nourishment. (If you were in traumatic shock, your blood pressure would plummet.) You may actually feel chilled, even in a warm room. I’m afraid I’ve been there many times, and my sympathy goes out to you. You need to slowly regain balance in your life. Force yourself to participate in other activities. Get out of the house. (I often sought out a book store and treated my self to a book or magazine and a coffee.) Connect with supportive friends, even if it’s just sitting there silently sipping a cup of tea or watching TV together. In other words, you need to stop the slow decline and realise that life goes on. It will take time. Perhaps PE is a good option to divert your mind and give you an achievable goal which will make you feel good about yourself. (After my divorce, I threw myself into the Y and outdoor activities big time.)

Just my 2 cents worth. Good luck :-)

One final thing: the universe is an odd place. You will find someone else, and incredibly, she will be even better for you. I’ve been continually amazed by how often this has happened in my life.

Positive thinking has lots of advantages but when doing PE these advantages are very slim.

Actually plus, that was really helpful, I do notice I have cold all the time. Thanks go to everybody who had the courage of replying so far :)

Depression affects a lot of aspects of life. Appetite, sleep patterns, hormonal levels, and more. Breakups are tough. But when you are ready and you’ve “sadded yourself out” you’ll find that one of these days you’ll be able to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again. I know that is simplistic, but that’s the way life works.

Meanwhile, involve yourself with others. Go out. Do stuff. Eat right and get lots of exercise. The healthy sleep pattern will come back and your cock will come back to life. Consider this just a terrible time that you are going to endure, and get over.

Man sorry for that, cheer up mate! Life is short, you are the only one that can solve that problem. Try to do some other activities like gym, sport, go meet more chicks, in that way you will keep your mind busy. I am pretty sure that in Belgium there’s plenty of hot women! I know what you are going thru right now but we have to be tough in this world. Take care dude!