Do women enjoy more length or size?

Do women enjoy more length or size?

I saw an article that says they prefer girth over length.

When it comes to the vagina, there’s some cross over between the two. If your penis is very long it stretches the vagina lengthwise and compresses your penis to make it thicker. If your penis is very thick, the vagina stretches out girthwise. Not all women like their cervix getting hit though.

1. Good hard erection that can last for a long time.
2. Long enough to be able to perform most positions without slipping out. 15-17 cm will be enough.
3. Girt (but not to big)
4. Length (but not to long so it hurts)

This is what I think is what women prefer in general but of course there are they that prefer both bigger and smaller.

And there are other stuff that is much more important than the proportions of your dick.
Personality, looks, body, charm, being a nice person, education, work, money, have a good life, health….

Many women I’ve slept with enjoy the feeling of girth stretching them, but if you’re long enough to hit spots most guys don’t it also drives them wild, and plenty girls will only get super wet or squirt if you hit the deep spot.

It’s safe to say during your PE journey aim to improve both size, girth, and width.

V/R
Wrath

This is purely anecdotal, but the consensus seems to be girth over length from the partners I’ve had in the past. Obviously some combination of both is best, because if you’re 10 inches long and thin like a pencil it probably won’t do much good. I’m not super long at just under 8 inches, but I am very thick. I’ve been with a lot of women and most seem to comment on my girth.

Some memorable moments include:

Making a girl squirt for the first time during intercourse (at least two different partners that I can remember)
Making a girl bleed even though it wasn’t that time of the month (seen that a few times)
Having her tell you that you’re the biggest she’s ever had
Her asking you to stop after an hour or so

Good times ;)

+1

Size is more of a guy thing unless you are unusually small. I think that most women would be okay with anything over 5 inches in length with a commensurate girth.

Sure there are size freaks but they are not all that prevalent or numerous.

I know that my wife could not care less unless I was packing a micro. I am doing PE for me, not my wife.

+2

I have not been with many women, in fact, you could count the number on both hands (how uncool is that?), but it is my understanding from reading on the subject that most women do you climax from penetration but by manual or oral stimulation. So, if you can consistently make your dates cum from penetration (assuming that they are not faking it), you are an unusually good lover be it technique, size or a combination thereof (also assuming that you are not so damn sexy that women climax without much more stimulation than just looking at you).

Provided a woman is “in the mood”, I agree that oral is 100% successful when it comes to giving her an orgasm.

I also must say that, since my early 30s, the “success ratio” of women cumming from penetration is very high, but I am not sure if I’d attribute entirely to *my* portfolio of amatory skills (which certainly expanded over the years) but also because, from your 30s on, you tend to be with more experienced, self-assured women that actually aren’t shy about showing or expressing what they need. I do open their eyes to new things here and there, but they know how to make themselves cum on you, and just let them lead the way and learn them. :-) It’s interesting to observe the differences and similarities in what triggers them.

A good example is a Mexican friend I have. We first met in the 90s when I was 30 or so and she was 19. She came like crazy from oral sex, but not from penetration, I remember, in fact claiming it hurt her no matter what I did, and just went “you’re too big mi amor, just cum soon, it hurts.” I remember it was frustrating for me. We met in Cancun by sheer chance again about 5 years ago, both of us far more mature, and she came like crazy when we made love. She had to go on top, and it’d be two strokes up and down, then she’d rub herself a few times… the cadence increased in speed, she made a weird little dolphin sound when she came like that. What had changed? Her age. She also came when I showed her another little trick. She’d had a child in the meantime, but she was still super tight, so size incompatibility hadn’t been the issue either. It was just the fact she was 19. Mind you, I have been with 19 year old that were very experienced. So it’s all person to person.

And I guess my point is that what women REALLY care about is someone who pays attention to them, cares about them enjoying the moment and makes them feel worshipped.

I was receiving a lap dance and the dancer kept saying, look what your doing to me. (erect nipples etc) I lent back and showed her my bulge and said, and look what your doing to me. At this point I triggered the poor woman as she froze, her face went blank and she crawled, backed away, to the back of the podium exclaiming its huge. (Normally I would just have gone, I’m paying you and I bet you tell everyone they are huge, but the visibly shocked reaction is hard to fake) She regained her composure and the dance continued. I’m 7.25 x 5.5. After she was finished I thanked her for her compliment as I said I do know I am high average but there is always insecurities that men carry. She then said that amongst the dancers they said length is nice but it is girth that get us off and you have both.

SB

I’ve only once in my entire life have been with a prostitute (that I know).

To me a huge thing about the chase is the ego boost when I have to work for it and a smart, beautiful woman falls for me. Don’t get me wrong, if I do the math I think prostitutes may be the smarter choice. Without 2 divorces to my name, I wouldn’t even have to work at this stage in my life (but I probably would, I enjoy what I do).

I have been to corporate events in Cuba and Hungary and Russia and Manila and many others, and high class professionals were there and beautiful, and aplenty. I was very tempted in Cuba (you find every mix of shape, skin and hair color you can imagine, and she was spectacular) and Hungary (probably the most classically beautiful woman I have ever seen, and very classy on top) but passed both times even though afterwards I probably masturbated myself raw in the hotel room. Both of them never talked about bulge or size, it never came up, they just said I’d do them a favor by picking them, because there were a lot of other execs in the party that… simply didn’t look or talk like me. But I said sorry.

But in Vegas, her name was Simone. I was in the sh*t zone with my ex-wife, she’d withheld sex for over a year and I had not been with anyone else because I really, really cared about her and wanted us to work out. But there I am, very high end corporate party in that club on the top floor of Mandalay Bay or THE Hotel, forgot which, black tie event. I wasn’t strictly invited, but was friends with the salesperson of the year (who had designs on me, I found out later in the week) so went as her date, but we both were like “Hey, once there we’re free to see”. So she quickly found her guy and she said bye, and I am there spending time talking here and there with the very few people I knew, noticing that everybody was completely drunk by 8pm while I actually had been paying attention to the very good jazz band they had. And this is Vegas, and at night, so there were ladies of the night around even though it was a private event. So I sit at the bar and order myself a glass of dry French rose and sip on it, and after a while, this exquisite vision materializes next to me. She is super-exotic and has a shape on her that would tease an erection out of the statue of a monk. She later told me she was PolynesianHawaian-AfricanAmerican-Scandinavian, and I believe that. We start to talk about stuff, I share her traits of exotic looks which people can never place, and we share our DNA histories and where we have lived and blabla. But in talking I find out she is definitely not in the industry that sponsored the event, and ask her about that. She is quite direct - turns out she had been hired to provide entertainment to a VIP guest, and that’s exactly what my tag said, bless my friend. There were 10 of them in the event, she said (I had seen some other spectacular women walking around) and she touched my event badge and told me “I like you. You know how to handle yourself around a woman. I do what I do, but I do it with class, and want to be treated with class. Your badge here [tap] can make me $1.5k. You can show me off for 4 hours, or take me to your room for 2 hours. What do you think?” I proposed “Women like you can be a cruel bunch, I have heard. You say you have class, so let me make up my mind. You know you are spectacular, but I have never done this before. So, I’ll throw in a bottle of Dom Perignon and a nice dinner, and if I want you after I’ll throw in an extra 750 for the exquisite company.” And she’s “Spoken like a true gentleman, I accept. I like how you do business.” And I smile and say “Wait until I do pleasure” and she laughs. So yeah, I’ll cut the story short, we clicked and ended up in my room.

She knew her business. She asked “Do you want to play some music?” and I played some upbeat Jagged Edge song I liked at the time, and she was like “Wow, I love this song, I am surprised you know it” and started to dance and undress. I was worried about my cock not getting hard with what, in the end, was a prostitute, but boy was I wrong. She danced, she was naked, I muzzled on those absolutely gorgeous tits, and then I undressed. She was amazing. Now I have always told you guys I truly have never seen myself as particularly big -I finally accepted I was big about 5 years ago or though, I just didn’t give it much thought- but when she saw my cock, Simone went “Daaaamn P. I didn’t bring extra large condoms. You should have told me something hon. You look very healthy, but no condom is an extra 5k, I only do that with long term customers, but I like you.” I answered “That’s exactly why we’ll either use a condom or find some other way, Simone. I have some and you can inspect them.” And so she did. I told this story to a more experienced friend of mine and he told me in theory they are not allowed to do that.

One thing she consistently did that shows she was a professional - she never kissed me on the lips. But she let me kiss her cheeks, her neck, her back, her magnificent ass and her upper inner thigh. And when we fucked, she did react to me. Of course she was was a prostitute, but as I am doing my favorite thing, she does what women do when they want to get off, she gets on top of me and you can tell she’s developing her own little cadence, and then she trembles and sighs as I suck on her nipple (she had nipples similar to a Romanian ex of mine, who loved to ride me and would cum if I sucked on her nipples at the same time), and she buckles some. She truly says “Boy you’re so good” and we go some more. But I can’t cum in her with the condom on. It just doesn’t trigger me. She’s then “I don’t want to leave you hanging - what do you want?” and I ask “Baby oil, handjob and your tits?” and she’s “Oh yeah!”. Minutes later, I shoot my first cum over a woman in over a year, and it was a good one. And then she didn’t leave. She was curious about me, as in “Why does a man like you do this?” and I answer “Two things, Simone. First of all, you know you are spectacular. Second of all, my wife doesn’t fuck me, and honestly it’s my damn fault.” Then she’s like “How about we go downstairs and have another drink? I like being with you.” And so we did. After the drink (we spend a good 2 hours talking, it was after 1.30am), she’s like “Do you want me to come up again?” and I ask her “How much?” and she just says “Whatever you want to give me. I am tempted to come up for free, but I can’t.” And she was true to that. We did it again. Because we had established more intimacy, this time I did cum really good (with a condom) while stoking her good. She did the exact thing on top again. Afterwards she was “You know women, your wife is lucky” and I say “Wish she’d think the same, then again I don’t think I’ll let you call her and tell her, you know?”. She then left, but gave me her number and said “I’d really like to hear from you again, I had such a good time.”

I never called her again, but it’s the one time I was with a prostitute, and she was awesome.

You are actually in the upper 5 percentile. More like a low large than a high average. The lap dancer’s reaction is only a little weird because of the profession she is in. Backing away like that would be more the reaction of a librarian than a lap dancer.

A great story, Smooth.

You are well named, Sir.

You would give 007 a run for his money.

You would also make an excellent romantic novelist to get those frustrated women off in their quiet moments alone.