Does Your Significant Other Make You Hide Your Bulge?

I catch grief everyday.

I have a severe IBS issue so underwear is never an option because it triggers an attack, so I stick to pants with a loose waist. I can sort of get away with long pants until I sit down, then it obvious. When I wear shorts there’s no way people cannot notice so I try to wear a long shirt.

Washing the car in the driveway, with my shirt off and basketball shorts on always sports a great conversation with my wife that usually ends with “no one wants to see that thing”.

That’s the same thing I get from my wife when she asks, is that what u were wearing to the supermarket?

I think the real question is…why hasn’t your wife made you throw out your cargo shorts? Haha.

The wife doesn’t care for my bulge being shown in public. With a couple pairs of my gym shorts you can see what side I’m tucking to. She’s not a fan of it but it doesn’t stop me from wearing those particular shorts.

I’m running low on my cargo shorts already. I’ve busted three pair this and counting. Best one was when I was working on my jacked up K10. I went to throw my leg up to step on the 35” Federal so I could replace the distributor. My shorts literally exploded. I said f**k it and kept working with my manhood hanging in all its glory. I was hoping my neighbors smoking hot college age daughter would see, but I didn’t get that lucky haha.

My fiancé gets extremely jealous and doesn’t like when I wear tight fitting pants. I don’t really notice a bulge but she claims it’s noticeable. Doesn’t stop me from wearing those pants.

I have noticed with starting PE and the recent gains my pants are tighter in the groin. While picking up the kids my ex wife did look a couple of times, so it must be working.

Recently, at work it was pretty warm in the factory. I was wearing an older pair of my favorite low rise boot cut Levi’s and was hanging fat and heavy that day, probably 5.5x5 or so. I put my unit down my right leg to make it even more noticeable. I walk into my office I share with my female QA manager and she turns to me to inform me on a quality issue we’re having. Mid sentence she looks, looks again and then does a triple take with a concerned look on her face. She didn’t miss a beat though. Kept on talking.

That’s the best when that happens.

I was working with my boss. She and I were eating at the bar and I spilled on my lap. I took the napkin from my lap and proceeded to wipe up the spill. She looked at my lap and immediately blushed. You could clearly see my glans and shaft going down my leg in my dress pants. Now I catch her taking quick peeks when we work together.

That’s a great story. I’ve noticed the other women in my dept have been much more friendly. I guess they’ve noticed? I used to try to hide it, but flaunting it more plus being bigger in general makes it hard to miss now.

That’s awesome!

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My girl does not want me going commando at all. I have a few pairs of cargos I used to wear to work until our uniforms changed and they would show off my bulge when I was sitting down.

But I’m a serious grower so I don’t think I have a bulge all the time. But she still is super crazy about making sure I don’t show my stuff off. Out of respect I don’t worry about it, if it makes her feel more comfortable then I’ll accept her requests of wearing underwear. If I was single however, it’d be a different story. Lol

Fight the Power and Your right to show off what you’ve got, just my 2 cents.

Personally I thrive on having my bulge showing and always go commando in sweatpants as well and there’s no missing my sausage then, I’ll tell you that much. It’s really not that different from women showing off their cleavage and wearing skimpy clothes.

It’s so much healthier to go commando. Or at the very least boxers instead of briefs, although that’s pretty much just wearing shorts under your pants so what’s the point really? Our balls were designed by a hundred million years of evolution to hang freely and be temperature controlled by our nutsack, not compressed and constantly squished up against the warmer body.

I’ve never had a significant other tell me what not to wear in public, but I have had two partners actively try and encourage an erection while out and about for their own amusement. Not sure the appeal, but I think its like the male equivalent of showing off a partner with a large butt or breasts perhaps?? Honestly the whole thing escapes me to a certain degree. I’m like a sentient textbook with all accompanying sharp edges and paper cuts. Much of the “human socializing” aspects of society leave me a little puzzled as to the intricacies inherent to such things.

I’ve become a fervent believer in the commando method. I’ve heard a few guys on this forum say, “Oh, I could never do that.” And that was me a decade ago, too. Now, I could never wear those nut-killing Euro style ball sacks or the American tighty-whitey’s. I think that we (in the U.S.) get pushed to wear those things on a moral basis, more than anything.

At the very least, wear silky boxer shorts.