Does your wife know your practicing PE?

Like the title says does your wife, girlfriend or significant other know your practicing PE? How long are your routines typically? I see some fellas do things in roughly 10 to 15 minutes while it seems others will spend an hour or more.

What’s the schedule looking like where you can manage all your time to do this?

I told her when we were dating. She would watch me pump. Now 16 years later she likes the benefits.

Time tends to increase as you seek continued growth. You’ll know when to increase time If you listen to your sick.

Tell them and don’t hide it. It’s something you’re doing to keep your body healthy.

With no scientific proof, I feel like there are two types of partners with relation to PE: Those who are cold or even appalled and those who dig it. PE is polarizing.

But attitudes can change. If she’s the appalled type and you want to do PE, she may adjust to it and it becomes normal. If she’s the hungry type, she may adjust (unfortunately) and it becomes less of the turn-on that it once was.

I started a post very similar to this a few weeks back I think. My wife doesn’t know yet as gains are small I think the time it takes before she realizes it, if she ever does would be quite the while. I myself have the luxury that I work for myself and I am home alone most days while she is at her workplace. This allows me all the time I need in the 8 1/2 hours she is working. Since I am not looking to get freakishly large, I would be happy with 6 1/2 x 4 3/4-5 (the reason for this size is her favorite dildo the usable length/width are about these measurements), at my current size I think it will take many many months before I get there if ever. The only thing I can say is if you want to go for it without her know it you may have issues with when & where you can do it, I happen to be in an ideal situation myself.

Good luck if you decide to do this incognito.

It would benefit you to find a way to let her know that you are doing this. You might find that she is supportive of your endeavors because this is as much for her as it is for you. I let my wife know almost as soon as I started and she had already noticed a difference in feel and texture and was wondering what was going on. Everyone here is supportive of each other and you will find a lot of good information and help on this site. That being said we are all men who sooner or later push ourselves too far and cause a slight problem that will cause us to have to step back and take a break to heal. Hopefully that never happens out you but if it does it will be so much better if she knows what your are doing and why you look different down there.

Didn’t tell my wife right away as I was just starting but after a couple of weeks I told her. She’s happy with my current size and didn’t really see the point but told her it was something I wanted to do for me. One weekend I actually let her “lurk” on thunders with me and she is now really supportive. She still doesn’t want me to get “too big” and if I break my dick I’m in deep trouble. I’m 4 months in and she can definitely notice a difference (I’ve gained 0.25” in BPEL and MSEG).

My advice would be to tell her. I actually took her on the Visualizer site and showed her my current and my goal. It actually turned her on and we promptly went to the bedroom. Good luck and hope all goes well for you with PE and the Mrs.

I hid it for a while, then told her. She comes into the bathroom sometimes while I’m jelqing or pumping and it’s great to not have to hide it anymore. She is very supportive of my addiction!

I am from the other school, I don’t understand why someone would share this.

Gains are not overnight and once they notice / if they notice, that would be a logical time for a discussion.

What wife? 🤔

No she doesn’t.
Typically 1 1/2 hours.
We have little ones so bedtime is 8:00 pm. She puts them down and that’s my time.

I have not told my fiancé. My full routine is about 1.5 hrs. I work 4 days on, 4 days off. My off days are when I can do full routine, including rest days. My work days, I do what I can, when I can.

She has always told me size doesn’t matter. She says everyone she has been with is about the same. She only remembers the extra small ones. Like 2 out of 20. Thankfully I’m not 1 of the 2!

Like I said I haven’t told her, but I think she might know something is up. I’m pretty sure she she found my clamps in the shower last week. On work days I clamp in the shower. She never said anything though.

Also, I started 6.75” in BPEL, now 7.375”. Started 4.625” MEG, now 5”. I usually use a cock ring during sex which puts me at a solid 5.125”. She has never said or admitted I am bigger, but I can tell by her sounds/reactions and faster/ more orgasms that it’s different than when we first got together 7 years ago. I started PE 2.5 years ago. I don’t know if I will ever hear those “magic “ words, not sure why. I do know I really enjoy her more vocal reactions during sex.

When I first started dating my girlfriend, I told her there is one weird thing I do. Then I explained PE, and my reasoning behind it.

Luckily for me she has been supportive, by giving me the time to do my exercises. In addition she has given me feed back, on if she felt it’s gotten bigger, what is more pronounced, and or if she felt the exercise I have been doing has been unproductive.

I believe it helped when I told her in the beginning of our relationship, and explained I have been doing this for 10 years, and I don’t plan on stopping because I enjoy doing PE and it’s benefits.

My wife knows I do something, and I purposely asked her to be indifferent about it. If I work at it and it she feels a difference and says it’s better…then she gets called out for lying about my original size being perfect, and that bigger is better. If I get bigger and she says it’s not as good, then I’ll back off. Right now, there have been times when I’ve over pumped and added about 1/2-3/4” girth and she seemed like she “took it”, but it wasn’t some mind blowing experience. I have a long commute too and form work, so I’ll drive with my extender on or pump. As I type right now, I’m pumping while in my work office at lunch. I also have wednesdays all to myself. I’ve started doing ultrasound, and that’s something that’s time consuming and I have to do at home with a schedule that means she’s going to be around when I’m doing it. I just tell her that I need some time for my exercises, and she doesn’t talk about it.

I told my ex wife when I first started all those years ago. She didn’t care. I also told my current gf. I’ve gotten 2 different responses. 1st one was through text and she was kind of excited about it I suppose. Second time just the other day I brought it up. She just said that she doesn’t care what size I am. You know that whole shtick. I know she prefers average size or maybe slightly above average based on the toys she has. She hasn’t actually said anything about me feeling bigger when I was working length, but now that I’m working on girth I think she’ll notice more. I flat out told her if she ever feels like it’s getting to be too big I will stop.

My wife knows I do PE and equates it to all the other exercises I do.. A workout for my penis.