Edging and Multiples, a success and a question

Well, I finally had my first orgasm without ejaculation! I have been practicing the stop-start method of edging, where I play with the point of no return multiple times in a session. This time, I get to the 5th PONR and a little cum leaks out, then BOOM: orgasm! I decided not to try for a 6th round, and rather just let the new feeling settle into my body. So, there’s the success!

Now for the question: The first PONR I hit, a few drops of cum leaked out even though I stopped all stimulation. It didn’t trigger any refractory period, though. The middle 3 PONR’s didn’t cause any cum leakage, but the last one with the orgasm did. So while I technically can’t call it a “dry” orgasm, it was still an orgasm without a full normal ejaculation, and I could tell that there was no refractory period with it. So, is this normal with edging and multiples? Is it just that the ejaculation process is started slightly before orgasm, but stopping before the PONR cuts off the full blown ejaculation process? Do you expert edgers experience this as well?

Thanks,

StumpStump

Hey StumpStump,

Did you hold a kegel or a reverse kegel prior to or during the “dry” orgasm?

Did you have a feeling of a full orgasm?

So far I did not manage to achieve a dry orgasm. Sometimes I manage to do the other way around (ejaculation without orgasm) somewhat purposefully, however, although that’s nice for the visuals, otherwise it makes not much sense for me.

Is it some of the pre-cum clear colored fluid or is actual milky sperm leakage? I ask because supposedly the pre-cum leaks out all the time and happens to me a lot when getting close to the PONR.

It is definitely milky colored.I get a lot of clear pre-cum as I go along, but this was just two drops of sperm fluid as I got close to the PONR and stopped all stimulation. I didn’t hold a kegel or anything as it happened. The orgasm was maybe 75% intensity as compared to an ejaculation orgasm, but still I could clearly tell it was an orgasm.

StumpStump: thanks for the clarification.

Albierto: if your question was to me, on those occasions when I ejaculate without orgasm, it seems sperm indeed (it’s definitely not pre-cum) and also the quantity is close to a normal ejaculation with an orgasm. It mostly occurred (or more precisely, I felt an urge to make it happen) in a period when I was turned on a lot by my partner without actual opportunities for having sex for like a week or more, and I didn’t want to masturbate either because I was preserving myself for her. On those days I felt that my body produces so much sperm that it’s just too much, and I used to feel some strange internal “dribbling” feeling inside my urethra during the day (in a flaccid state), like if some fluid is moving through it. It was quite strange, and got somewhat annoying with time, so after a few days I always ended up “easing up” by arousing myself close to orgasm in a way to ensure an ejaculation without an orgasm so that the “excess” came out and then the dribbling feeling went away for a few days. Nowadays I don’t do this.