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I have read some information stating BPEL is usable penetration. If you have a very large fatpad however does this limit depth? I have a 1.5 + inch fatpad. I’m sure some of it is pressed down, but likely not the full amount. Can anyone comment on this?
Yes, and therein lies the problem. If you have a large fatpad, it takes away penis length, not just in a measuring sense but in an everything-else sense. The way you look at the gym, how far you can penetrate a partner, etc.
I figured as much so I am working hard to lose my weight. Started at 350 now I am 270. Still a long way to go. I hope I can get rid of most of my fatpad. Doing PE at the same time. BPEL is at 7 now but I’m more like 5 or 5.5 NBPEL.
Can the female fatpad also get in the way of penetration? I figure its the same concept.
You will get some compression of fat pad(s) during sex so actual penetration should be slightly more than nbpel, but the compression is unlikely to be anywhere close to what you measure with a ruler.
Hard pounding sex will have more compression than a slower pace. Girl on top will also have some benefit, plus that’s a natural position for maximizing penetrative length (I personally like cowgirl).
Compression of fat pad works the same for male and female.
Initial: 7” BPEL; 6” NBPEL; 5.25” - 5.5” MEG
Current: 7-7/8” BPEL; 7-3/8” NBPEL; 8.5” BPFSL; 6.5” MEG; 6”x5” Flaccid.
Goal: Improved/consistent EQ while managing ED. Secondary: maintain current stats.
I believe that when you press your groin into your partner, you push in about half of your fat pad so you gain about 1/2 of the fat pad depth.
If your female partner has a sizable fat pad, find a position (eg doggie, legs on shoulders), that doesn’t involve her fat pad.
Start 11/09 BPEL: 5.5", EG: 4.4"
Current. BPEL: 6:4", EG: 5.5"
Unless you are obese I don’t think fat pad reduction via weight loss will be as beneficial when comparing BPEL as you are pressing into the bone so it will remain fairly consistent.
It can make a minor change to NBPEL but won’t be significant as sometimes the fat doesn’t want to go.
I’ve been 69kg, 78kg and even 88kg back and forth and it always remains the same as I am not obese.
So don’t stress about it and sometimes surgical fat reduction is the only way but I wouldn’t do that.
As Don Logan said, it’s all about perception and some factors can make things look bigger and smaller.
If you want to do PE, just do the newbie routine. Take it slow and easy. Don’t rush and use heat.
Get that down and you might start gaining over time. Put the ruler down and measure again in 3-6 months after concentrating on your goals and making sure your technique is good and your not just pulling and causing damage. :)
3/02/2019 - BPEL 6.5", MSEG 5.5"
BPEL 6.5” to 9.0" 8% Progress 6.7”
MSEG 5.5” to 6.5" 19.7% Progress 5.71”
Found out I must be smaller than I thought. Seems like I’m the smallest my SO has been with. Its disappointing but I hope to gain and get some lost length due to weight gain. Was 347 and I’m down to 268 but I don’t see much difference in the fat pad.
I measure 6.5 BPEL which I though was respectable. I feel like I am losing a good amount of length due to my fat pad.
Does losing weight give you more usable length once the fat pad goes away?
Does losing weight give you more usable length once the fat pad goes away?
Yes, but not enough to make a difference for sex in my opinion. The biggest change will be your health and body image. Worthwhile in my opinion.
Started 7.75x5.75
Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread
Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!
Yes, but not enough to make a difference for sex in my opinion. The biggest change will be your health and body image. Worthwhile in my opinion.
That’s a bit of a bummer but I will keep at PE and weight loss. I have a large fat pad. When flaccid my penis looks about 1 inch and when I put back my fatpad its about 3.
I have roughly a 2 inch fat pad. I doubt all of the is usable. I was hoping it was around 1 inch of fatpad useable. That way with weight loss and PE I could make some decent gains.
That’s a bit of a bummer but I will keep at PE and weight loss. I have a large fat pad. When flaccid my penis looks about 1 inch and when I put back my fatpad its about 3.I have roughly a 2 inch fat pad. I doubt all of the is usable. I was hoping it was around 1 inch of fatpad useable. That way with weight loss and PE I could make some decent gains.
My opinion is not to discourage you. Remember a well placed finger and tongue can send women over the edge. You already have more than enough to do the same with your penis.
Started 7.75x5.75
Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread
Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!
My opinion is not to discourage you. Remember a well placed finger and tongue can send women over the edge. You already have more than enough to do the same with your penis.
I understand that. I just am not long enough to hit my wifes CDS or cervix when she was with others in then past that could. I am trying to do whatever I can to get to that area.
The best pleasure spot for women is about 2-3 inches in. You have more than enough.
Started 7.75x5.75
Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread
Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!
My SOs spot seems to be deeper than that. Either that or I have not been able to locate it yet. I know she likes cervical and CDS stem. I am good at eating pussy so I can always make her cum but I want to give her a vaginal orgasm. She had had them in the past with more endowed lovers.