Firm Frenulum?

Are there any oils or lotions that can help soften the frenulum? Mine has gotten very firm and I believe it’s from wearing an extender.

Anyone? I really would like to soften the skin on the frenulum.

You could just massage it between your fingers, maybe use both hands and give it some light stretching. It’ll loosen up and stretch like anything else over time, if you do it often enough. You might use a dab of extra virgin olive, mineral (baby oil), or coconut oil, if you must. I don’t know it’ll make much difference next to the massage. Just be sure to wash the olive oil off when you’re done, it will sour.

As far as something to apply and forget, without the manual portion, I have no idea.

Sorry there’s not much help.